2006-06-07 18:18:05 · 17 answers · asked by Billie Joe Girl 11 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Heart Diseases
You will not be able to get over it, but with time, the pain will feel less and less.
Even though he was just a little wee baby, he was defenseless and you didn't get to know him nor could you protect him from what happened.
You may be trying to keep him in your mind in case you fear you will forget him - you won't forget him so it's okay not to think of him all of the time.
Speak to your parents about how you feel, I'm sure they will want to speak with you about it.
2006-06-07 18:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry your little brother died. It must be so dissapointing to you to wait for so very long and finally the moment came when he would be born only to have him suddenly taken from you. I can't even imagine how much sadness you must have right now.
It's normal to think about death and all the images that go along with it A LOT after someone you know dies. Let yourself cry and grieve and do some research about the phases of death because you need to experience them all. This is NOT the time to let people "take your mind" off of what has happened. You need to talk about it, and focus on taking care of your emotional needs at a time when everyone is probably thinking about everyone else.
My thoughts are with you
2006-06-08 01:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Gillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My MOM had a miscarriage before and after my birth.
That is different than the child actually being born ofcourse, but you know... I have a couple of different outlooks on it.
One, they are allready in heaven with GOD/ JESUS. and two, they are my GUARDIAN ANGELS.
I know it is different for you, Just hold onto the love and always try and keep a prayer in your heart.
I did not know of my "sibling's", that were never brought into the world until I was probably at least 15 yr's. old. By then and even at a very early age I felt I allready knew GOD and I knew that they were safe in HIS loving and warm embrace.
God Bless you and your family.
I am sorry for your loss.
Know that your brother is safe, and with GOD.
And both of them will always be right in your heart, so you can talk to them anytime you need to.
DJH
2006-06-08 01:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by djyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry Billie. That's got to be really tough.
Don't try to get over it, you can't change what happened. You can try to live with it. Yes, he died, but you didn't. You are still alive with a lot of important things you have to do. Think about what you brother would want for you? Do you think he would want your life to be held back by him? I promise you he wouldn't.
Go on and live your life happy, with a little extra happy on the side for your brother. You owe it to him to be strong.
Can you do that? I know you'll be happy if you can.
2006-06-08 01:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by mickjam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are three steps that can help:
1. acknowledge the loss- you must come to terms that you baby brother has passed on. There was nothing you could have done. You have to let go.
2. express you feelings- give yourself time to grieve. don't keep your feelings inside.
3. move on- this DOES NOT mean to just forget about it. this experience will always be with you. you are prone to think about your baby brother. just remember that he is in a better place now. don't ever forget about him. keep him in your memories, and he will live on. ~
2006-06-08 01:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by pinneapple_418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad and I am sorry that happened in your family. It takes time to heal on the inside after something bad has happened in our lives. I don't know how old you are. If you go to school or college, seek out a counselor and talk to them about it. Let your family know how you feel. Look in the phone book to see if there are support groups that can help you on this issue.
2006-06-13 14:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Zippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will heal the hurt, and you will never forget him.. I am so sorry you had to lose your baby brother.. but just remember he is in God's loving arms now, and he is being taken care of by all the other relatives of yours that have passed also.. Just be with your Mother and Dad right now, and be as loving and helpful as you can be for them, they need you very much right now.. and you need them just as much.. This is a very hard thing to understand.. Just keep good thoughts about him in your heart. He will always be with you.. Blessings and God bless you and your family..
2006-06-08 01:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by nannyj37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. Just remember grief happens in stages. It won't get to the point where you're happy about it, but gradually, you will begin to be able to live with it. You just have to get through the initial grief. If he was going to live a terrible live, maybe sick from what he died from, just be happy that he's not suffering. There are a lot of web sites that help with grief. Also, I recommend looking up some of the Christian grief websites. They have Bible references. That helped me a bunch.
2006-06-08 01:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im very sorry about your baby brother thats very sad, Bad things happenm its not something that you can help and unfortunately theres no easy way to get over your brother dying. Grieving takes a while, Just surround yourself with the love and support of family and friends. and talk to them about how you are feeling...
2006-06-08 01:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homeopathy:-
To overcome the loss of a loved one IGNATIA 30C Thrice a day half hour before meals and NAT MUR 30C half hour after meals thrice a day will help overcome the grief and depression quickly !
Take Care and God Bless !
2006-06-08 03:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋