It really sucks! I'm a loving person who has the best intentions and I've always been pushed over and disrespected. That's why I am almost ready to go back to being totally alone.
2006-06-06 03:27:37 · 17 answers · asked by Just Me 4 in Health ➔ Other - Health
So what's the answer? Be an a**** like everyone else? That's not me. Why can't I be nice? It's frustrating b/c I feel like there's something wrong with me. Is life nothing but one big game? Play or get played???
2006-06-06 03:33:23 · update #1
I know what you mean "a bug" I'm the same way. I have an equal, opposite attitude when you do me wrong.
2006-06-09 03:39:52 · update #2
people don't respect "nice" people. They say they do. But deep down inside, when they know they can get over on you....human nature tells them to. Sad but true. Can't be nice all the time. Be a biatch sometimes...they will back off.
2006-06-06 03:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by schillinfl2 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You know my dear I feel the same way. I had a great talk with my new supervisor yesterday and she knows I do all I can to help out around this hell hole. Regardless, I get more complaints from one person to whom I don't know why their complaining and all I've tried to do is help them, never once not helping.
What was nice to know is that the people who notice are important!! So just note that somebody does see your good deeds and it may take some time but you will be greatly rewarded.
You take care and keep up the good work.
2006-06-06 10:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one thing to be sincerely nice and another to be someone else doormat. I find myself to be a sincerely nice person. Everyone who meets always gets along with me I also consider myself a people pleaser I like to make people happy. Those same people who love me and find me so nice know that the same way I'm sincerely nice I can extremely disgustingly nasty. I am very sweet until you get me mad I have the mouth of truck driver that can pack a punch like a boxer.
Ain't nothing wrong with just getting MAD!!!!!
2006-06-08 12:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only constant in all of your relationships is you. Don't be naive and gullible and learn how to spot jerks so you don't fall for them. I was always called "a nice guy". Girls say they look for nice guys but that never seemed good enough. I waited and finally at 26 I met my fiancee. She is wonderful and well worth the wait. I hope you can find someone that makes you as happy as she makes me. Good people are out there, they are just outnumbered.
2006-06-06 11:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by chios78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. Having been through relationships with people that have disrespected you is only making you a better person. So when you do find the right person you will know the difference. Good luck!
2006-06-06 10:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always treat others like you want to be treated, but never become a pushover. Some people tend to use others kindness for their weakness. You have to be wise and prevent that from happening to you. Continue to be nice but treat undeserving people with a long handle spoon(hope you heard of that saying before). Only the strong survive so never be a weak link. Stand up for yourself.
2006-06-06 10:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by bossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know. I am a good-hearted individual too, but I get down all the time because everyone around me is so selfish, mean and inconsiderate. Underneath my bitchy veneer, lies a heart of gold. God knows it, so I don't care what the world thinks. You just have to be careful who you decide to help and/or befriend. The world is ripe with wickedness, hell, it's even a cherished trait it seems.
2006-06-06 10:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always does this happen...... being nice does not mean accepting everything thrown at you. you are allowed to say no to things that you feel will get you walked all over or in ur words sh*ited on. so you can only blame yourself for letting people think that they could do that
Hope i havent offended you because i dont even know your situation
~Mimi~
2006-06-06 10:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem with boundaries. You let people run over you. You have to learn to stop. I suggest yoga or aikido. Or other martial arts. Honestly you have to take some responsibility. Change your behavior or it will keep happening. Get some boundaries.
2006-06-06 10:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are "sincerely nice." Come on, we all know the world caters to celebrities and other assholes that make the world go round!
2006-06-06 10:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋