are you impatient with people?

Question

people i think r making me sick. I can't even trust christian people (most of them got me into bed) God will have to move quick on somebody for me.

Answer 1

most got you into bed? there are millions of Christians and "most" of them got you into bed???

Answer 2

Sometimes, I can be impatient with certain people but, that's when I have to stop, realize what I am doing and ask God for forgiveness and the willpower for patience. As for the rest of your question "what are you talking about", got you into bed and move quick on somebody for you? I really do not think you made your question very plain, try asking again with a little more detail or at least a little more structure in your sentences'

Answer 3

Im very payient with people especially the ones i help.

Answer 4

Well you got yourself in bed don't put Christan's out there ....The Bible says be careful of Wolfe's in sheep's clothing
and it also says Trust No MAN......

Answer 5

I don't think it's fair for you down talk ALL christians just b/c of a few ppl. And let me just say a TRUE christian doesn't sleep around AND it's not exactly like you didn't have a choice as to whether you slept w/ them or not!

Answer 6

no I'm nice to everyone but if they don't have the patience with me it's their loss because I got wings.

Answer 7

For the most part no, I am usually very patient giving people multiple chances but I can be pushed too far when people don't listen or make the same mistake repeatedly (4-5 times in a row)..

For instance if I tell a religious person "I am not interested." and they continue I raise my voice and tell them again "I AM NOT INTERESTED" (just in case they have a physical not mental hearing problem) If they still continue I really let them have it, as they should have listened, comprehended and acted accordingly the first 2 times....

They have clearly shown me that their agenda is far more important to them than actually communicating (part of which is listening), so I feel justified in letting them know they are "Self-righteous, hypocritical, sanctimonious, delusional fools who would be better off in a mental institution taking large doses of Lithium so they are not a danger to others." ....

That's usually when religious people start crying "Persecution, God-hater, you are going to HELL!!!!!" reinforcing that I am correct in my characterizaton of them...

Answer 8

You have to ask yourself what it is about those other people that cause you to be "sick." I'm afraid I don't understand what you mean by "most of them got me into bed." Could you add a note explaining that?

After that, then ask yourself why you are so impatient? Delay of gratification is the hallmark of becoming an adult. Perhaps you aren't there yet. Do you expect things to work the way YOU want them, WHEN you want them? That thinking will cause you anguish. *** The more you expect out of people, the more you will feel disappointed when it doesn't come about.

Try not to have expectations. Nothing will be a disappointment then.

If this is really bothering you, you might consider speaking with a psychotherapist. I used to see an excellent one. Somehow, he changed my way of thinking. Since I no longer expect something to work MY way, I'm no longer upset when it doesn't.

Good luck to you.

Answer 9

sad to say today's world is a "me" world. people hide behind anything that gets the results they are after. Keep YOUR faith. I'm not saying don't trust....just saying be picky.

Answer 10

No not really.

Trust is different than patience. You shouldn't be having sex if your not married. You cant trust yourself that's the problem, I think you are sick of the way you are acting. So ask for forgiveness and change.

Answer 11

First I have become impatient with people where I work since my feet and ankles are in constant pain from having to close the door after they come in for so long. Now I will motion or tell them to please close the door. Or I will close the door on my way to do what they need.
Your comment leads me to think that you are not firm in yourself to allow 'them' to get you into bed. Try to love yourself more and you are the only one that is there for you always.