Please help me. Im begging you from my heart!?

Question

Im 13 btw and I dont know what to do Im really upset. My mom calls me names like B**** and Mother ****** and all the bad names is the book. She screams at me and hits me. She says im a piece of Sh** and omg she makes me feel really bad. She smokes weed and i hate her for that. One time she couldnt fine something and she treatend to kill me. I fear her very much and i dont know what to do anymore. She is the number one con artist you will ever meet. She always says you cant go to your grandparents house unless you give me money, she always wants money and she doesnt want to get a job. I dont know what to do..

Yes but Im scared to call the police she said if I ever do then she will return..and like idk can i do somehing to make her not like that

Yes but Im scared to call the police she said if I ever do then she will return..and like idk can i do somehing to make her not like that

Answer 1

You should go to your grandparents and talk to them about the problem first then go to your school counselor or local social service department. It is very important to get some sort of counseling for both of you. The outcome may result in you being separated from your parents until she get the help she needs. If and when that happens you need to be very supportive of her change will not happen overnight. Things will be tough at first but in the long run they will get better you must look out for your safety and well being first I wish you the best of luck and be strong

Answer 2

Some people were never meant to be a mother...it has nothing to do with you or anything you do.Your "mother" is lying to you about saying if you call the police she will return. That is not true at all...she will not be allowed around you, that is just her way of preventing you from getting the help you need. When you next go to school go directly to your school principles office and tell them what is happening to you...they WILL help you. Do this please I know it is scary but you will be so glad you did when you don't have to live this way anymore.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Buy a small recorder and record her tirades. When you have 8 or 10 recorded, take them to a school counselor. They are trained to handle this kind of situation. You can get very small ones that you can easily hide in a shirt pocket, or behind a picture or somewhere.

Answer 5

Oh, honey, I'm so sorry that you are being treated so horribly. Please know, that youa re not to blame for your mom's behavior. Verbal abuse can hurt just as much as physical abuse & you don't deserve to be treated this way. Is your father in the picture or a male relative that you can talk to? Your mom is a very sick woman & she needs help. The only way she can get help, is for you to talk to a trusted adult, who will listen to you & help you do what's best to get your mom the help she so desperately needs. That adult can be a school guidance counselor, relative, etc. You need to get out of your home as soon as you can until she can get help. Who can you turn to right now for safe shelter? I know you may be afraid to call 911 when this abuse is going on but if all else fails, leave your home, & make the call. You can also go to your local police department, & talk to a police officer about what's been going on. Tell the officer everything, even the threats on your life, as that is very serious & they need to know that especially. Tell the officer how you live in fear also, & they may ask if you can stay with a relative or friend for a while. They will help you, so don't be afraid. Be strong & do what you have to do NOW.

Answer 6

You can't make your mom "UNangry"... she has emotional problems, and anger inside, and YOU are not at fault. When she calls you names, it hurts...

Pot smokers are usually depressed people. Weed is a depressant for most, and it doesn't do anything for a person's personality in the long run. If she drinks, then she's doubly depressed.

You can't control what your mom does; however, you could make it a point to talk with your school guidance counselor, or an adult relative you trust and respect for direction.

If you have somewhere else to live, that would be nice for you. You can also contact social services.

Your mother is abusing you, and from my childhood experiences, emotional abuse is the absolute worst kind. Please get help... and let those who you look to for help know she's threatened you. It's not right, it's not fair.

Your mom needs help and i hope she gets some. For now, please get the help YOU deserve.. hugs

Answer 7

i have about the same problem =(
my parents are so mean to me and im 13 too.
i dunno what you can do.. i asked almost the same question
sorry that didn't really help but i just wanted u to know that theres someone out there with about hte same situation as you...

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aio2xG4Q7vMZEM4YChrQLt._7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20071231192923AAdAHf0
maybe u can help me.

good luck to you.

Answer 8

Hey,
Please talk to a school counselor or pastor or someone you trust. Anyone close to you to live with??? Your Mom has real problems,,,,,,, help her get some help but talk to someone who can help you.......... soon. I truly hope you talk to someone
Love and Hope
Oldguy

Answer 9

go to social services, turn the slutt in

Answer 10

tell some1 call the cops