how do i do this and i know what i am going to say is pathetic but here it goes?

Question

how at 32 yrs old do i ask you ladies out when i am a shy person.

Answer 1

Just do it. Take a deep breath and do it. It's not hard. I've asked guys out before. Just fake confidence. The worst she can say is no. Later you can have a laugh about it...about how nervous you were at the time.