Alright, here's the deal. Me & my boyfriend has been going out with about 2 years now. It was our 2 years this month. 5 days ago, we got into an argument (I'm on my period) & I said some things I didn't mean. He understood. I didn't see him for 4 days before that & I was getting mad that he didnt make the time to see me. So, after I was calming down, he told me "I can't believe how I treat you. We need to go on a break". I kept asking why & then he made it to a break up
2007-12-31 13:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you said yourself that you said some MEANS STUFF to him and blame that on the fact that you were on your period...you have been together for 2yrs and thats a long time for not finding the right way to respect each other.maybe it was the last drop for him.....i know , as a man, that i can only take so much s$%t from someone that i care and stand by......if my love isnt respected the same way that i respect her love then it wont work....obviously the "need space" thing is just an excuse and he has already made up his mind of NOT being with you......accept the fact that you made a mistake and learn from it.......... you can always try to let him know that it wont happen again and bla bla bla but i guess that on your next period , you might turn into your old self again.
2007-12-31 14:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by mr b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is his problem?
First, don't use your period for an excuse to be mean and careless to someone you supposedly love... it gets old fast... especially when they know to expect it every month!
The easiest way to turn a "break" into a "break up" is to pester about it and get too emotional. It only reinforces the reasons as to why the relationship has problems. A break could have "made the heart grow fonder" if you let him think there was something about you he would actually miss. You just gave him frustration and dread to think about.
He can love you (still) but realize that yours is a bad match with little hope of getting better. It sounds like he thinks it's time to move on, so should you.
I know it hurts and I am sorry that you didn't hear what you wanted to, reality bites hard sometimes.
2007-12-31 22:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by ladyquesteur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy says he means some space, it pretty much means he doesn't want to be around you or having the title of "in a relationship" tagged to him. Although he said the comments you didn't mean to say did not bug him, they obviously did. He probably realizes what a douche he's been and is taking time to reflect off it. Either that or while on the break or before he, he has been seeing someone else. Hard to tell from just that short paragraph but that is what it seems like. Don't continually call him or try to contact him, then you just look desperate. Give him is time and space and in due time, he will come back. And if he doesn't then he clearly did not want to be with you. Hope it works out!
2007-12-31 21:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by dspawadjie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The way I see it, you could do two things. You could keep trying to get him back or you could start flirting with other guys and let him see how much it would suck to lose you. Guys do NOT like to be pursued!!! Good luck. Men are hard to figure out. Have you read the book "He's just not that in to you?" I've heard really good things about it.
2007-12-31 21:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by daisycake44 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's either afraid of his feelings for you OR he's cheating. I have had this game played with me, it's not worth it. Tell him to have a nice life and move on. It will save you a lot of heartache. Keep your chin up, Mr. Right will come along when you least expect it.
2007-12-31 21:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by If the shoe fits... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A nicer way of saying "we're through."
2007-12-31 21:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may feel you two have gotten too close. I also tend to dislike that sort of commitment, so he probably just got tired of the relationship.
2007-12-31 21:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋