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i go out with this guy and just recantly i got told that his ex still likes him she broke up with her boyfriened beacuse of it
wat shuld i do i scared i could lose him
cus i think he might still have feelings for her
:(

2007-12-31 13:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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in those kind of situations, you shouldn't be concerned. if you have to be concerned then there has to be a part of you that maybe doesn't trust your boyfriend. you shouldn't feel threatend by his ex. here is something to always remember not all guys lie about their feelings, but majority don't like talking about them, especially when it's about another girl to their current girl. since your really bothered, you should sit him down, look him in the eye, watch his body language and ask him if he has feeling for his ex. if he has to pause and think about it or avoid the question, that is going to allow his ex the chance to make her move on your guy because he might still have feelings for her.

just know that a woman can get a man to do anything she wants him to, no matter how tough he is. i say, be honest with him, but don't give him the impression that your insecure because that is a turn off to men.

P.S

if his ex does in fact try to make a move on your guy, do not allow yourself to be angry with the girl, your only anger should be towards your man for listening to his little head, and not the one that sits above his shoulders :=)

2008-01-03 00:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by LinkinParkRocks88 2 · 0 0

It takes two to clap a hand. Love too needs commitment and feelings from both side. Sometimes, love is cruel but someone is sweet. That really depends on both of you. Talk to him on how you feel. Try to sense what he wants. Some ppl still hold on their ex or worst he take you as "temporary" gf in order to get past over his ex. Maybe he loves you more now ? Please talk to him and see how it goes. Don't be scared or worry by guessing.

2007-12-31 22:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0 0

Happy new years Baby ... .... You may loose him but then you may not . Sometimes people are meant to be together ... Only time will tell. Put your head up and always walk forward . Take your path where ever it may lead you.

2007-12-31 21:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There really is not much you can do. If he wants to end things with you and get back with her - there is nothing you can do.

Don't obsess over it. Just continue to be yourself and let things play out as they will. If you get extra clingy or obsessive over it then you are apt to give him a reason to dump you.

2007-12-31 21:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Boots 7 · 0 0

Ask him if he likes her back or not. MAKE SURE HE TELLS THE TRUTH

2007-12-31 21:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia K 2 · 0 0

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