I get along so much better with men than women,but then when a guy likes me, and I don't have those exact same feelings, they accuse me of "teasing" them. And no I don't wear clothes that show everything. I just have a natural charm I guess. How can I stop men from calling me this?
2007-12-31 13:36:12 · 8 answers · asked by rlnark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess i understand a "tease" as one who makes a guy think she "will" when she "won't". So if you are leading them on (which is sometimes different for men than women), like flirting up to the edge but no further, giving them the idea you think more of them, plan more for them than you do, then pull back, pull back until you no longer hear the complaint.
If you are hearing many of these comments, i guess you have to kind of pay attention, listen and trust it to some extent, but if you really think they are wrong, then just let it go. Do beware the guys who will try to guilt you into sex by making you think you made some kind of promise. Guess you have to look it it a little from both sides.
2007-12-31 13:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't..they are teasing themselves and will continue to, your just going to have to get used to it or not let it bother you, as long as you know that your not then piss on em..theyre doing it to them selves..hopeing, it goes with the territory..don't let it bother you...they'll grow up or they won't not your problem
2007-12-31 13:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Terriblterry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help to know your age. If you are in college or younger - men are especially selfish then. Even if you are being friendly and they Miss-read it or just get their ego bruised b/c you don't feel the same way - they lash out at you.
I suspect the quality of the men you are hanging out with is poor.
Chuck it up to their immaturity.
2007-12-31 13:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what other peope do, you can only control yourself and in this case how you react.
Stop hanging out with people who call you names --- why do you keep getting in situations with these types of guys?
2007-12-31 13:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are saddos and need to tell them to get a life.
2007-12-31 13:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to how you act around guys. Maybe you're being more of a 'tease' than you realize.
2007-12-31 13:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start puttin out
2007-12-31 13:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋