ive been working with this guy for the past year, from the start i was attracted to him and we got on really well, liked all the same stuff etc. then about 3-4 months into knowing him, i find out his age...17. im 21.i was totally shocked, he doesnt look it or act it. he has more facial fuzz than most men i see. the other day he told me he wants to take me out but he understands he might be too young...
opinions... advice...please?
2007-12-31 13:32:07 · 26 answers · asked by itsa_me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really should stay away because you can get in a lot of trouble legally. If his parents decide they don't like your relationship they can cause you a lot of trouble. It is best to wait until he is 18 if you really like him it shouldn't be a problem.
2007-12-31 13:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Janice M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a 17 year old when I was 37. You only have 4 years of difference. It's not a big deal. Just don't have sex with him until he turns 18, or whatever the legal age is where you are.
2008-01-04 02:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by darcy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO WITH HIM THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT! MY FIRST DATE WAS WHEN I WERE17 YEARS OLD AND SHE WAS OLDER THAN ME SO GO FOR IT
2007-12-31 21:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Dandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advise 4 dummies
you coulddo it now age is but a number.
ok advice
you could wait till hes 21 and your 25 or something and become one of those cpouples where the wife is older than your husband and you end up in the wierd times newspaper
smart advice
you could say hey ill go out with you but lets just do this as an outing of friends because i like you but i just dont want to start anything.we can go and do things as friends so we can meet other people and still be friends.and if a friend asks were just friends nothing else.
oppinion
age is but a number but do the smart advice ya know?its just smart!im not saying yoo cant date or anything cause if you want to you can.
2007-12-31 21:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cool ! Just stay verticle until he is 18 !
2007-12-31 21:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with him. If he he is too young or you are too old, you will soon find out. You may also find out that you ages are irrelevant to your feelings.
2007-12-31 21:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say wait a bit til he's 18 so you dont get in trouble, and go for it!!!! in hollywood those men are calling us girls and women who date younger guys "coogers". BUT THEY HAVE NO NAME FOR MEN WHO DATE YOUNGER WOMEN?!!
go for it girl!
2007-12-31 21:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tree Hugger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STATUTORY RAPE WORKS BOTH WAYS...
for MEN dating underage GIRLS, as well as WOMEN dating underage BOYS. Think about it.
2007-12-31 21:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by 452 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you lost? Seriously! Think of who you are now as to when you were 17! yeah your a lot different! and that he means hes gonna be changing in a few years and you may not like him so much anymore. Don't do it! It'll only bring heartbreak! Find someone thats 21 or older!
2007-12-31 21:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by I Love Me a Freakin Good Burrito 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
theres nuthing wrong with an younger guy just wait until hes 18 though you dont want jail bat!
2007-12-31 21:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by mrsjuju 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋