im a single mother of a almost 2 year old and im 5 months pregannt i dont get help from the fathers!!! At least the father of the child already here but i dont want to be deployed iand lose my babies please tell me how i go about getting out email me chrystal_19_86@yahoo.com or anything i really need the help
2007-12-31 10:44:07 · 47 answers · asked by chrystal_19_86 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I don't know what branch your in but if your in the Army read AR 635-200 chapter 6 it will tell you everything you need to know.
2007-12-31 16:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Old Guard 33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what branch are you in?
and the first answerer is right..the military might do you some good..
email me..
I can help you..if you want.
2007-12-31 15:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are pregnant talk to you chain of command, you can elect for voluntary seperation.
2007-12-31 11:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You joined on your own so read your contract. We will see you in 15 months. (The needs of the military come first)
2007-12-31 11:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
A single mother with one under two and another on the way. I don't want to judge you but you have some problems. It is difficult for many women to get child support from one guy, what makes you think you will be able to collect from two.
Ok, now to your other problem. Since you are expecting another child, there should be no reason to fear an immediate deployment. However, once the maternity leave is over, you will have to return to work. You should be familar with the paperwork for your child care for if and when you have to deploy. I think you have to look deeper and do some soul searching before you try and get out. There are women in the military in the same situation as you and they have managed to handle their lives. How are you going to provide for these kids when you get out? Do you know the cost of child care, health care, food, insurance and so forth. You really need to sit down and figure out the good and bad. A deployment does not last forever but a ruined life will follow you and the children. How about one of the fathers taking responsibility and caring for the children while you are gone? Then again, that is not going to happen or you would be married. You don't need to get out, you need help. Then again, if you are in this kind of situation and asking for assistance on the internet, what kind of future leader and role model will you be for your troops? I highly suggest you seek the guidance of clergy and a professional couselor. Your NCOIC should be able to provide the direction you need to find this help.
2007-12-31 11:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Red 7 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know much about the military, but I always imagined that if I am ever drafted, I will pretend to be the worst soldier ever so that they don't accept me. This might be a bad idea but you could try to be a really horrible soldier so that they kick you out. You could also pretend to be gay because I've heard that gay people aren't allowed in the military. These ideas could be bad so be careful but this is what I would do if I didn't want to be in the military.
2007-12-31 10:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Brett 2 · 2⤊ 8⤋
This is a joke, right??? The military does not deploy pregnant women, and if you do not have a Family Care Plan (and someone responsible to watch your children while you are deployed) you will either not be deployed or counseled to get your childcare act together so that you can deploy (I don't mean that harshly, I simply mean that is how the military will think of it).
2007-12-31 10:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
call an attorney that specilizes in armed forces law, he should be able to tell you how to get out
2007-12-31 10:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 3⤊ 11⤋
Sounds like your problem has more to do with getting pregnant from multiple men than the military. I think the military might do you some good.
2007-12-31 10:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sordenhiemer 7 · 14⤊ 9⤋
Do something you're not allowed to do... duh
2007-12-31 10:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 15⤋