Would you prefer a virgin virgin instead?
2007-12-31 10:37:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not in this situation, i am a girl and i am a virgin virgin lol happy new year
2007-12-31 10:51:59 · update #1
and ill be 22 in 2 months
2007-12-31 10:52:12 · update #2
maybe they changed their mind
2007-12-31 10:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would prefer to be absolutely sure that the girl I love, loves me. If this happens I could wait until marriage.
Some people decide to wait to have sex again until after getting married. This may be because they may have been hurt (emotionally) in the past and felt like it may not have happened if they would not of had sex. There is no such thing a s Virgin Virgin and with today's low moral standards, well, young people are having sex earlier and earlier, so a true virgin is hard to find. If you do find a virgin, male or female, be respectful and don't pursue him or her as a conquest, or a trophy. Scum bags are a dime a dozen, and they give all of the good guys the bad name and make it hard for a girl to trust when the best thing she may ever find is standing in front of her.
2007-12-31 18:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rudy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person has obviously been hurt or betrayed. When you become very intimate with someone, you form an unbreakable bond with them. It must have taken this person a mistake or two to realize this, and now they want to wait and save that kind of love for their lifetime partner. I see nothing wrong with it. If you're in it for the s*x, then you're in it for the wrong reason and you don't deserve this good person. Go find someone standing under a street light and pay for it.
2007-12-31 18:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, hell yes I'd prefere a virgin virgin. um, i don't think you should date that non-virgin. that's just messed up. 'cause that's where you two are to be bonding; what she's saying messes it all up.... i think you'd like to find out more why she don't wanna do it till she get married. Puff, as if that hymen will come back! if you're a virgina then say bye to her and find one who's a virgin. if you're not then see if you'd like to wait too.... Good luck!
2007-12-31 18:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by straight_up 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am a virgin until marriage, if the person i am dating is not happy with it they are not worth my time,because if they cannot support your moral values and what u believe, what good are they going to be in the future?
even if ur not thinking long term in that relationship i would still not date someone who isn't okay with my decision to stay abstinent, if they really cared they would support you.
2007-12-31 18:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by ilyish 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is irrelevent.
Sounds like a wise woman. Women should not be used. By having sex with a woman prior to commitment you are just using her. You have to earn the privilege first by commitment.
2007-12-31 18:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt bother me at all. Every body has a right to say yest to have sex and to say no to sex even if they are not virgins. It doesnt matter to me if my gf was a virgin or wasnt a virgin becuase i can wait till shes ready to have sex. Look dude got two hands so if u get to hot and botherd go take care of it until the lady is ready to have sex. She might not want to wait till she married, she might be trying to see what ur reaction is to her saying that stuff to u. So be a man just have patince with her. Sex doesnt make a realtionship. Sex should be a bonous in one.
2007-12-31 18:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nate 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It would send red flags up for me. This is a person who has experienced sex and yet doesn't want to have it? Also, it means it may take a long time for the sexual experience to build. I'd prefer someone with some experience.
2007-12-31 18:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by guyster 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
i would think that that person has had a bad experience before or is testing your loyalty, either way you have to be patient and show this person that you care about them and that having sex will benefit the relationship and not destroy it. dont ever push this person into or make them feel guilty, it will only make matters worse.
no i would not prefer a virgin i prefer someone i could share something beautiful with. Sex can be very beutiful with the right person
2007-12-31 18:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Hey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really wouldn't care as much.. especially if i really like the person. Relationships aren't always just about sex.
2007-12-31 18:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by passion for fashion 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my hubby and i were both virgins. i am 24 and he is 27. we were both honored because we know we didnt have another guy/girl on our minds.
2007-12-31 18:41:41 · answer #11 · answered by txlady24 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋