Raised my ex-wifes daughter from the time she was born till she was almost 3. Still see her once or twice a year. Sometimes she calls me by my name sometimes by Dad. Went to her graduation party 2 summers ago. Went to her wedding last summer. Those were the 2 times I met her husband. Shes stopping over tonight. I have two Christmas cards for her, one for daughter, and one for daughter and "son". Which should I give her? Don't know him to call him "son", but think it might be rude to exclude him. What to do?
2007-12-31 07:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by grasshopper 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If you regard her as a daughter, then he would be a son-in-law! She would be delighted if you included him, and it would make him feel welcome.
2007-12-31 07:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Thia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the "son" card, if they get mad about that, at least you won't feel bad....................
2007-12-31 11:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately rude to exclude him.. Give them daughter and son one..
2007-12-31 10:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jaggu Don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give her the daughter and son. You love her like a daughter and he's married to her, so while you don't know him like theat, you probably will get to know him like that in the future.
2007-12-31 10:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by bainaashanti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it'd be a nice gesture to include him. It sounds like you still have a good relationship with her and this would tell her that even though you aren't technically related, she still matters to you.
2007-12-31 07:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by ktrb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send the for daughter one and add "& family".
2007-12-31 20:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋