Me and my Man are going to be living together after I graduate and we do plan on being sexually active frequently. Ive talked to him about birth control but he says that he knows how to take out and therefore I dont need them. And he does know from past experiences weve had, ive never gotten pregnant. But for some reason I just dont feel like I can completely trust him on that. So if your living with someone, is it best for you to be on birth control? Plus I havent seen him for a very long time because he moved to another state. (Where imma b going) And...he just might ejaculate alot. (Yaw know how it is) lol So what should I do...Please Help.
2007-12-31 05:32:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well are ya' doing it?? If yes then yes.
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2007-12-31 05:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He "KNOWS HOW TO TAKE IT OUT"? What happens when his pre-c*u*m gets you pregnant--just an OOPS and he is on his way? MAKE HIM WEAR A CONDOM--why should YOU take all the risks just so he gets more sensation ??
2007-12-31 13:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sexually active the pill is a good option as there is a low risk of getting pregnant (although there is still a chance). The only problem I have with it is that I sometimes do forget to take them which lowers its effectiveness. If you're a forgetful person you may want to get a once a month contraceptive (ex. the Nuva Ring) that is inserted by your doctor.
And of course there's always condoms which also help with sexually transmitted diseases. But I know alot of guys rather dislike them. But combinations of the pill and the condom is safer.
And also pulling out is an inaffective way of preventing pregnancy. Even if he hasn't ejaculated, sperm can still get through.
2007-12-31 13:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your body, do not leave it up to chance for anything, and if he doesn't use condoms then he may not have to deal with pregnancy but you might and if you really can not handle it why would you even want to take risk. Either he needs to udnerstand your feelings or you need to find osmebody who will respect you because on this issue he might not.
2007-12-31 13:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Hiro a Hero? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To paraphrase Ronald Reagan, "Trust, but protect yourself." In other words, if YOU don't want to get pregnant, then YOU take the precautions; pill, diaphragm, etc.
2007-12-31 13:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by 8-) Nurf Herder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your not getting pregnant before doesnt mean you cant get pregnant... I've been living with my fiance for about a year now. It all comes down to if your ready to have children mentally and $$. My fiance and I are ready so we dont use any preventions of any kind now. Before I was on birth control becuase I wasnt ready but he was. So he had no choice to understand I wasnt ready. Dont trust the old "I PROMISE I'll pull out before I ***.." sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt... Dont risk it.. Its not smart...
2007-12-31 13:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,because because that method is not going to always work...so use the pill...but that method is not 100% either....only if you or he can't have kids or if you don't have sex that you will be 100% of not getting pregnant....
2007-12-31 13:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get on the pill right now if you are having sex. The pull out method is not birth control at all, in fact it is just about as of getting you pregnant as leaving it in. There are little bits of sperm coming out of him all the time he is in you and if he is just a split second slow in getting out you are getting it all. In addition I wouldn't like that at all how can it be any fun for you.
2007-12-31 13:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason not to take the pill. It prevents cervical cancer, makes your periods more regular, and prevents pregnancy! He "knows how to take out." I assume you mean withdrawal--that is not an effective method against pregnancy. Have him wear a condom, be on the pill or DO NOT HAVE SEX. Unless you're ready to have a baby! Don't let him tell you not to take the pill--it doesn't bother him. You are the one who has to take it. I've been on the pill since I was 16 (24 now). Take it!
2007-12-31 13:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by stefanieiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. better be safe than be sorry later...
2007-12-31 13:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you want a kid. Relationships are crazy and almost never go the way you want or expect. Dont get stuck with a child and a baby daddy. Focus on your future and family.
2007-12-31 13:38:57 · answer #11 · answered by AntG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋