my bf broke up with me a few hours ago... I do feel shocked, we did have some stressful times, only been together for 3 months but we had a good thing and we loved each other. He did call me selfish a lot of times though cus I dont like to go out to bars ( he does) and that I like to be by myself too, to unwind ( he doesnt need that like I do). I did break it off with him in the past but missed him a lot and always got back together. this eve he broke up with me and he did it so coldly, there was this ice cold look in his eyes, I wanted to touch his hand but he wouldnt let me, he said he " was gonna look for someone else" and that it was over... and only yesterday he told me he loves me a lot and we were happy together... will he come bacl to me or am I wasting my time? I know Im not perfect ( and neither is he)
2007-12-31 04:57:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told me I want everything my way, but thats not true, I just dont like going to bars often or to go out every night of the week... I was feeling ill this eve and wanted to be by myself and he thought I ruined our new years eve together
2007-12-31 05:15:51 · update #1
He probably wants to go on the pull tonight, sorry if that sounds harsh, but it couldn't get any more obvious.
On the one hand, it's good because he could have just gone and cheated on you.
But on the other hand it could be bad, if he thinks he can put you on the mantle-piece then come back to you once he has had his 'fun'.
Do yourself a favour, hold your head up high, and forget about him. If he comes back, tell him to do one. Taking him back again will only disolve any respect he has for you (if any).
Spend some time looking (honestly) at your relationship, work out where you went wrong, and correct it, then your next relationship will be even better.
Good Luck, Happy New Year AND DON'T GIVE INTO HIM!
x
2007-12-31 05:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Humza 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are incompatible, babes..
2007-12-31 14:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god you've only been together 3 months! You should be in utter bliss, cloud 9, nothing could be better. If you are already having these kind of problems after this short time, you are lucky if your relationship doesn't last - imagine how things will be in 4 years! Forget him, move on, new year, new boyfriend! Don't accept him back even if he asks - it will be better for you in the long run!
2007-12-31 13:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by ben w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably
2007-12-31 13:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think humza has nailed your question on the head! totally agree with everything said. he's no good - forget about him.
2007-12-31 13:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋