I have been dating this guy for two years who I am very much in love with. He has been seperated(legally) from his wife for five years. We recently had a threesome and needless to say it was with his ex. She is very jugdemental of me and I have never said a word against her. I am not jealous of her but it appears that she is of me. Even before this he keeps telling me that I am the ultimate mate for him. She has asked for a second time and my response was hell no. So should I or should I not?
2007-12-31 04:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you shouldn't, if you are the ultimate mate for him why would he want a threesome with his ex wife, it will all all end in tears and you will be the one crying, he is obviously not over his ex and it sounds like he want to have his cake and eat it.
2007-12-31 04:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by robbo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah. do it again.
2007-12-31 05:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not so much his "ex" then is she?
2007-12-31 05:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do this it will destroy your self worth. Tell him if you are his ultimate mate it is you and you alone, he is trying to humiliate you.
2007-12-31 04:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are about to go from having a boyfriend to having a boyfriend and a life partner. And he has went from having 1 girlfriend to having 2 girlfriends.
2007-12-31 04:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of the whole situation, and wait for someone that's completely in love with only you.
2007-12-31 04:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by H Lavida 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
To be honest, no, I don't think you should. To be honest you shouldn't have even had a threesome with her in the first place.
I know she has been judgemental and things but one reason she may be like this is because she still has feelings for her ex husband and finding it hard knowing he in a relationship.
Also having a threesome would have made her see what kind of sexual relationship you have and that may make her feel so upset plus she may have gone ahead of it thinking her ex husband is still interested as he invited her into a threesome.
Sounds to me that this is probably more your boyfriend's fantasy and no one else's - he needs to decide who he wants to be with. You and you alone or back with his wife. He is wrong to mix the two as too many people getting hurt and confused.
Lx
2007-12-31 04:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says that you are his ultimate mate then he doesnt need to sleep with his ex or anyone else for that matter. However if its something that your both into then good for you both but refuse point blank to do this again with his ex wife, it will only cause problems in your relationship.
Best of Luck
2007-12-31 04:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Grant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats weird doing it with his ex wife in the first place, i wouldnt do ti agian she sounds horrible
2007-12-31 04:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by chric43 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a fun person. But you are also clearly naive. At the best you are being exploited by the two of them. I can only see trouble ahead. This guy and his wife will probably only bring you grief.
2007-12-31 04:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋