So my girlfriend and i broke up a few days ago and we're still the really good friends we were before we were together, but she keeps calling me babe and she says that she loves me... i love her back too but we broke up because of the distance between us...i dont know what to do now... do i just let it go and drop it and let her call me babe and stuff or what? and i dont want to be hurt again by the distance cuz long distance relationships don't last long...
2007-12-31 04:42:48 · 10 answers · asked by James M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it as it comes, but mainly it seems like you both have given each other a break to see other people, even though you both care a lot about each other. It is for the best, because it would be too much stress and work holding the long distance relationship.
2007-12-31 04:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you want to be friends with her but friends do not call each other babe. Tell her that you are not trying to hurt her feelings or anything but you don't like to be called babe by your friends. Long distance relationships usually don't work out for very long because of the distance between the people in the relationship. I think that you should try and fidn someone that lives closer to you to go out with instead of this girl. Good Luck!
2007-12-31 15:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart...think of yourself too...
You know that old saying "If you Love something, set it free...If it returns, it was Meant to be."
There are plenty of other girls out there...and you will fall in Love again. Just don't let this chic "harden your heart" to love.
2007-12-31 12:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let her call you what she wants to. Or you two could get back together.
2007-12-31 12:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by WHO-DEY!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go along with it. You might never know.
2007-12-31 12:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Cool_Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't think of it as just good friends more like friends with benefits and since you did date her and you were close friends before that she still wants to be close friends. You broke up because of distance between the two of you and now that you are just friends she sees it okay to continue like you are in a relashionship but not having to call it that and be fully commital. She still has feelings for you its just that she wants whats best for both of you and doesn't want to continue with a stessed relashionship if you are not nearby.Good Luck
2007-12-31 12:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you break up with someone it is important to stay away, and not continue associating with them even as friends, at least for the time being. You need time to deal with the loss and possibly grieve that the relationship didn't work out. This takes a little time.
I don't know why people insist on being friends after a break-up. It is fine to part on good terms, but being merely acquaintances for a while will allow you to move on. Staying in close contact never will.
2007-12-31 12:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly reasonable for you to set your boundaries with her. If "love talk" like 'babe' and 'i love you' are difficult for you to hear right now, tell her this.
2007-12-31 12:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lillith 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go along with it. It will be ok.
2007-12-31 12:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia (: 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This happened to me with my distance relationship...Just ignore it, talk to her if you feel like it otherwise ignore her calls. Eventually things will start to phase in and out calls will become infrequent etc. Just don't take it too seriously...Also, start looking for someone else if you are ready, don't get hung up on the memory of her. You'll be alright as long as you don't fall for her again.
2007-12-31 12:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋