This is driving me CRAZY! I don't have a car but I am almost to the point where I am going to take the bus over to his house if this continues!
We had a big argument last wednesday.. but we talked friday and saturday on the phone and he said that sunday we will hang out and talk.. i asked if he was mad he said "no.. its all in the past.. i want to work on getting past it and being with you.. i love you".. so i was planning that yesterday we'd be together.. well nope.. no call.. i called a bunch of times.. no call back.. left a few messages saying i was worried bout him.. nothing.
Here is the kicker.. He is on my myspace.. I have sent him 2 messages.. and just now I checked my sent mail and noticed that he READ both of them and didn't even reply back.. WTF?!
I can not for the life of me figure this one out.. when we talked on the phone he seemed fine.. that nothing was bothering him at all.
he claims he gets busy working.. but comon.. can't be that busy to NOT call me.
2007-12-31 02:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me add.. that he has in the past used crystal meth.. he swears he no longer uses it.. but i don't really believe it.. all of last weekend and wednesday i believe he was having problems cause of it..
help!
2007-12-31 02:09:38 · update #1
Maybe he needs some time to think, and your pressure might be counterproductive.
2007-12-31 02:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up & small the coffee, hon. If you are going to date guys who do hard drugs like meth, this is the kind of life you can expect -- only it will get worse. Dump him & forget him. He's a loser, and he will only drag you down with him. Good Luck.
2007-12-31 10:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth are you hanging around a guy who does drugs? Obviously he has problems. Why would you want to put yourself through a lot of pain and agony? He is giving you an out. For heavens sake take it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go find one.
2007-12-31 10:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just leave it for a while.
It seems that obviously something is bothering him, but perhaps he has a lot on his mind at the moment - as well as being busy with work.
Give him some time to think & he'll contact you eventually. [:
Try not to let it get you down. x
2007-12-31 10:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by teahTOXIIIC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't pressure him to want to be with you. If he doesn't, he doesn't & then why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Who knows why he changed his mind, but you are not important enough to him to be with or call or return your messages, so find someone who treats you with respect. If you let people treat you that way, you will lose your self-respect and that is MUCH harder to get back than it is to find a new boyfriend. Good luck, girl!
2007-12-31 10:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Pogo peeps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you are making it easy by keeping on calling him - if he loves you then after a long period - maybe a couple of hours - an afternoon or a whole day or a few he will call you - then after a few days you can use that against him since you called him so much - you are still in business you just have to get things comming your way more
2007-12-31 10:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something's definitely up. You should continue and see his behavior, and then make a move, since it seems that it's really not all that unbelievable that he'll go back to ice.
Or it could just be something else, who knows. I mean, seriously. If you have enough time to go on myspace, call your girlfriend!!
But just give him some space for now.
Guys are impossible. :D
Best of luck.
2007-12-31 10:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs s break but you keep stressing him out. Geez I would have called twice, but you called, emailed, stalked his myspace page. Sometimes people need some time to themselves . However if you were acting so insecure during the relationship i could understand why he's ignoring you-you sound annoying as f*u*C*K
2007-12-31 10:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by nyjae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gosh boys suck girlfriend!
2007-12-31 10:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That last argument, took him over the edge..he is reevaluating your relationship....he may already of had a back up plan........stop calling..he will call you back...trust me...
2007-12-31 10:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by jay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋