Ok, my mom and I share a room together; I'm 19 and my mom is 37. We have a 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom, 1 kitchen, 1living room home. My sister stays in one room, my grandmother occupys the other, and me and mom are in the same room. My mom is single; anyways, I need my privacy you know? It sucks, because there are times when I want to masturbate and other things; you know?; we bicker and fight like married people; about the t.v., fan, lights, basically anything. Is there a way for me to resolve this problem because I'm on my way headed to the couch in the living room.
2007-12-31 01:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Since you're 19, probably the best thing would be to just get your own little place. It's hard to live with other people - especially in cramped quarters like you have with your mom. The place may be a bit too small for all of you. Maybe even you and your grandmother can share a 2 bedroom place and split the expenses. That way you'd have your own room and could masturbate to your heart's content. ;-)~~
2007-12-31 01:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dep. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-31 23:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and move out?
If you don't want to cut youself off from you family, you can (try) to find a small batchelorette suite or one-bedroom appartment in the same area so you can drop-by easily.
The big question I'd personally have...why are you sharing a room with your mother? Most families stick the sibs together.
As for the mastubation issue...
Do it in the tub while taking a long hot bath. Do it late at night once dear-old mom is asleep, do it when no one else is home, etc. Your mother is dealing with her urges in the same way...and she's probably feeling a similar level of tension as are you.
In any case...good luck, and hopefully you can come to some sort of working arrangement!
2007-12-31 10:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you mom you want her to move out into your sister's room. If that coes not work just talk to her. After a while they will comprehend.(Parents)
2007-12-31 10:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is the grandmother living there? At 19 you are old enough to move out on your own. I'd suggest saving all the money that you can. Perhaps you can send your mother to sleep in your sisters room for a while. This is an odd situation. I don't really know what to tell you, but I'd be looking for somewhere else to live.
2007-12-31 10:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by ~Sara~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a job save money get your place. You and your mom will get along better cause you will both have space.
2007-12-31 09:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but the only thing that I can suggest it to get your own place. You're old enough now and have the right to move out if you want.
2007-12-31 09:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest save your money and move out asap. You could easily share a room with your sister or grandmother but you would argue about the same things.. just different people.
If you really want your privacy, I would move out.
2007-12-31 09:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can share the room with your sister (same issues, different person to bicker with), or save up and get a place of your own. It's hard to have privacy when you've got a lot of people packed into a small place. Nobody gets much privacy, but especially the ones that don't have their own room (you can bet your Mom is feeling the same way you are).
2007-12-31 09:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋