It is kind of distracting as I host luncheons at my house for out MLM group frequently. Should I say something to her parents whom I have known and considered friends for some time. To all you perves out there, I have known the girl since she was 7 so it creeps me out to think of her in "that" way. Please help
2007-12-31 00:02:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Child, this is a time when you need to sit back and give thanks to God for his divine gifts.
God Bless, and don't let her parents see you staring.
2007-12-31 04:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Yes I would mention it to her parents
2007-12-31 04:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk to HER not her parents!
She might not even realize she is visible.
Also, close the curtains on that side of the house.
2007-12-31 04:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she's 19. She's an adult and telling her parents may not help. Tell her yourself that it makes you uncomfortable when you host your luncheons and ask her to be more "proper" on those days. Also, explain to her that her tendency for being an exhibitionist, can be dangerous and you never know when some pervert(s) are hanging around, taking pictures, peeping toms or otherwise. It happens a lot these days be very careful. Good luck and speak up.
2007-12-31 03:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Len 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where do u live again? LOL...just kidding, i already know. Anyways, i agree with Kikime, charge a cover fee.
2007-12-31 03:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest that she at least pull the curtins.
2007-12-31 02:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should cover up your windows with curtains so that you can't see her in the first place. If she is still visible and it's distracting to other people at the luncheon you may want to call her parents and explain that you frequently have people over and that her being naked distracts the attention in a negative manner. They will most likely be offended, but hey, if it is a big problem they need to tell their daughter to stop parading around naked!
2007-12-31 00:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by marm212 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is wrong with the human body it is a object of beauty and if this young woman feels uninhibited that she can walk around her OWN HOME in the nude then all good to her. frankly if my neighbors came and told me to stop doing that i would tell them to push off. if you feel so embarrassed then close YOUR curtains ,that way you don't have to see her doing it .
2007-12-31 00:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ladylilacdragon 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe when you're hosting meetings, you could close your curtains, and it probably wouldn't hurt to mention it to the parents, if you feel that offended by it.
2007-12-31 00:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she probably doesn't feel the same way you do, she knows the curtians are open and you can see. if i had known her since she was seven i would just tell her to close her curtians
2007-12-31 00:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I guess the thing is if she is doing it in her house or in the back yard than its legal. If its in the front yard, than thats disrespectful and public indecency. I would take it up with the neighborhood association so it is anonymous. If you tell her parents, they may take it the wrong way and the mother might turn it into you watching her daughter which will get you in a hole. I would recommend, if no neighborhood association, getting together with a group of neighbors and than confronting. Power of numbers
2007-12-31 00:09:33 · answer #11 · answered by jimthesnowboarder 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋