we got together when he was seperated with his wife, and we were together for bout a year. he always told me we'll be an item when he's divorced, well i got pregnant in august, and he denied it at frist, when he knew he was my first. he went back to his wife, and i'm still waiting for him. he told me he'll wait for me, but i know since they're back together, he isnt think that right now. he's just stickin with her cause he has two kids with her, and always told me the problem with us being together is because his daughter, and he didnt want to loose her. well i'm 6 months pregnant by him, he says he's the father now, and wants to be in his life. he said he doesn't know bout us now, but always likes hang out with me. does he love me anymore? am i'm stupid for still loving him? it sucks loving someone who doesn't love you as much as i do.
2007-12-30 17:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by kay0305 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is what happens when you involve yourslef with someone who is already busy involved with someone else
just hope that he will be a part of your childs life and that he will do what is best by all of his kids including your own
2007-12-30 17:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by smittnlittlkitn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard lovin someone and the feelings not being returned. if he is with his wife then that should tell you something. Maybe you should stop persuing and start living yourlife without him, as you have a child that is goin to be more important then him comin soon. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel its just hard to deal with it knowing u love some one who is unavailable. just be strong and patient if he really does want you eventually he will be with you.
But do know i dont agree with wot has happened (my friend was in the same exact situation) and idont think he is worth it. If he can cheat on his wife with you who is to say he wont do the same to you if you end up together, think hard about it. No matter how much you love someone is it worth it in the long run. Think about your child and wot would be best for them in the future not you, as there is goin to be 2 of you real soon.
I hope you resolve your situation soon and you find the right path. Good Luck.
(P.S congratulations on your baby)
2007-12-30 17:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is back with his wife because he loves her, you were just a fling and the baby, to him, was an accident - but he is a responsible father none the less due to having children before. He never did love you hun, and more than likely he was never truly separated from his wife.
You will never have him to yourself - I suggest you get counseling to get over him and move on - and deal with being a single parent - and working with him on co-parenting and that is it.
2007-12-30 17:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him after all the excuses he has given you.
You are going to have a baby by him. You have to think about the baby's needs.
Have him pay for your check-ups and baby stuff.
Your worry now should be about yourself and the baby. Let him know. Love is definitely taking the back seat for now.
2007-12-30 17:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Hani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't love you. And the only person he is thinking about right now is himself, instead of that baby. And what do you mean by always hanging out with you? You mean he sleeps with you????!!!! Just let him go, you can't force someone to love you.
2007-12-30 17:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pat0785 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he got u pregnant and he left his wife and got back together with her then u are stupid for loving him because he doesn't wont u hes just saying that because he probably thinks when his wifes lives him you are going to be his f*** buddy so you should just move on
2007-12-30 17:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is why we don't get into relationships with married me.
He's selfish, yes, but he already had a family before you. I'm not sure if he still loves you, but he may still have... feelings... I suppose.
But I guess you have to move on. You can't wait on him forever.
Just hope he pays child support.
2007-12-30 17:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hormone are on a roller coaster right now...
It is perfectly normal to want to be in a relationship with the father of your child...
Don't rush things... but let him know what you want...
Meanwhile, live your life without him... file for child support, etc.
It will come clear for you...
2007-12-30 17:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I hope everything turns out to be alright. You won't get the right answer here because its your own life. Do what you feel right :)
2007-12-30 17:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by -Blast Ended Skank- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used you, but you participated. When a person is separated, they are still married - as in, not really available. No, he does not love you. I'm sorry.
2007-12-30 17:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋