2007-12-30 16:58:05 · 32 answers · asked by KiaClaire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you believe you can't live without a boyfriend (or a girlfriend) - that's exactly when you need to shake-yourself and realize - I need to grow the confidence within me to be able to be alone. It's wonderful to have a significant other - but you're not ready to have one if you aren't comfortable being alone.
If this were a logical world - like Vulcan in the Star Trek universe - you would have to take an exam and pass before you were granted the privilege of dating. Some people clearly aren't ready for it - we all know people who have gone from one bad relationship to another to another to another, etc. - and most of those are people who have said at one point or another in their life "I need a boy/girlfriend!"
Step back a bit. Make a pact with yourself. Don't date anyone for six months. Take the time to just think about what's happened in previous relationships. Take the time to spend with your female friends and family members. Get in touch with who you are - get comfortable with and confident in yourself!
Good luck.
2007-12-30 17:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by ron9baseball 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHEW. Girl, you better calm DOWN, before you get outta control.
GO out. Be spontaneous! Flirt a little with guys you find attractive. Just be outgoing and try to meet some new people you might feel a connection with. Sparks will fly in no time and you might even be a playerette by then. ; )
Good luck.
2007-12-30 17:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by juliejazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and have fun with your friends maybe you'll meet a cutie but you don't always need a boyfriend to make you happy or say your going crazy with out one because that only makes you sound desperate there comes a time for everything sometimes when you least expect it=]
2007-12-30 17:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Pr!!nCeSS<G!!rly> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your rush in to wanting a "boyfriend" sounds very desperate and immature.
It doesn't sound like you want a boyfriend... it sounds like you want to ability to say.... "hey everyone.. look at me... I've got a boyfriend... I'm an adult now cause I got some guy"
You really need to take a look at your life. A boyfriend is not just a trophy.
2007-12-30 17:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you need a guy, or anyone else, to help you with your own life, it's time for a big reality check!!
A boyfriend is supposed to be fun, and generally to ADD to your life,
not BE your life!
Anyways, good luck.
2007-12-30 17:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by A moost once bit my sister...... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you think my boyfriend is my boyfriend? like wtf!!
lol....oh and if ya want a boyfriend, being a wrestler probably isnt the best thing ever lol
but who knows, theres gotta be LOT of fine guys in youre wrestling class
;)
2007-12-30 22:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck
2007-12-30 19:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to go on eharmony or go to runescape and find u a bf its easy to find a guy on rune scape i had that feeling one time it drives me crazy
2007-12-30 17:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by J.M.C. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always email me...
I'm 26 and have never had a girlfriend. I think I'm past crazy to just catatonic.
2007-12-30 17:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
somebody give her a tissue...you poor thing, and to think there are people out there with REAL problems...man that mother stressing over feeding her kids,etc etc...theyre pathetic huh?? its your world princess, we just live here
2007-12-30 17:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋