I'm 16 and I haven't been asked out on a date yet. Everyone tells me how cute, smart, and funny I am, although I'm not the most talkative person when you first meet me. Could that be the problem?
2007-12-30 16:51:45 · 31 answers · asked by Breezy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking for a boyfriend, I just want to go on a few dates with some cool guys. I have been on a date but it was a huge disaster. I do like this one guy, but I am afraid of rejection, just like everyone else.
2007-12-30 17:25:08 · update #1
To be very frank, most of we guys like closeness with cute, smart and funny girls. You said you aren't very talkative on the first meeting. Its not a problem at all. Just be yourself and enjoy doing whatever you like. Enjoy new year eve! Good luck!
2007-12-30 16:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No and don't feel left out if the rest of your friends are going out. The right time will come so don't feel offended when your friends are having a good time. When you do, then you'll feel at ease - I guess the time isn't now. You're still young so take the time to get busy with your studies or helping your mum in learning to bake or cook or take up a new hobby. Who knows you might find someone compatible in your new interest?
2007-12-30 16:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Black Rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably. You have to talk to get guys to know you. You don't have to become Ms. Chatty McTalkstoomuch, but you do need to add some of your personality to a conversation or at least say hi and respond when a guy is talking to you.
You'll probably find it easier to get your friends to help you out and hang out in groups with both your girlfriends and guys. See if your girlfriends can help bring some more guys into the group for you to get to know. Just be careful they don't go overboard and start setting you up on blind dates just yet. Tell them you want some more guy friends.
2007-12-30 17:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People tell you how cute, SMART, and funny you are!!! YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND!!! they are too distracting TRUST ME!!! Maybe a couple of dates nothing serious!!! But if you still wanna go out with someone, maybe it should be someone you get to know first, and live a little. TALK!
2007-12-30 16:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya that could be the problem when u meet some one for the first time you should have ur personality in that way that the person should like you & be intrested in you & secondly when you want
to go on a date you should ask for a date!!!!
2007-12-30 16:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by dhavaldon2007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your only young at the momment i was 22 when i opened heart up for the first.
Enjoy being young
you have got loads of time before u start thinking about boys!
I no u might not want to hear this but it's true
just enjoy being you
2007-12-30 17:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweetcharlie100 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no problem, you are just young have the whole life a head of you.
dont change for anyone, you will start dating soon.
i had my first date at 18 and there is nothing wrong with me,i am now married with 2 kids so relax, dont let it get you down.
2007-12-30 16:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by dandyl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that, don't talk much when they first meet a person because you don't know them or you don't feel comfortable around them. I guess you need to talk to them if you want to know them more and if you don't feel comfortable around them by yourself, take a friend along with you, so at least you will get to know them a little bit more.
2007-12-30 17:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nai 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone push you into being something that you're not. If you are generally a quiet person, then so be it. But if you want to try to be more outgoing do it only when your ready, but if a guy id gonna like you it should be for you! =D
2007-12-30 16:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that could be a big problem but don't let that get to you kus' I'm not talkative at all and I've been with my man for 2 1/2 years... I don't like girls that are huge flirts with every guy they see, just be yourself. It doesn't hurt to put yourself out there though, just be smart.
2007-12-30 16:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by chris 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋