Its been 8 months and my crush is still haunting me in my sleep! please help me!?

Question

I didnt see him for more than 7 months now. But he still haunts me in my sleep. like last night, he popped in outta nowhere . he didnt look the same. he looked a lot older. i guess its cuz i didnt see him for so long. but this is really killing me. everyday for these 8 months, i have been forcing myself to stop thinking about him. im really trying! i tried to focus on school work. i tried to go swimming. but everytime i do those things, i always think of him! especially when im swimming, hez the only thing that comes into my head.
we are freshmen in hs this year. he goes to another school. the school i wanna go to. but i didnt get in. i guess it shouldnt really matter. but the fact that he got into the school i really wanted to go into makes me even think of him even more. i really dont understand though. my friend goes to that skewl and she tells me that he messes around with girls like he has with me. he really was a jerk. he was so shallow. so mean. but yet... please help.

Answer 1

You are obsessing about this guy. Maybe you should obsess about respecting yourself - okay, this guy is shallow, and a jerk, yet you can't stop thinking about him??!! Either you are addicted to drama, or you need to learn to get a life and to respect yourself. Sheesh! What is with you, that ppl dump all over you, and you say, "oh, but yet I still can't stop thinking about him....???" What would YOU say to a person who said that to YOU? To slap yourself upside the head and tell yourself to get a clue, maybe?