She left him once was really poor and struggled and went back to him. She tells me she will leave when she is finished with school. I think the main reason she wont leave bc her daughter is autistic and hard to deal with. She is always stressed and unhappy..Please be nice
2007-12-30 16:37:20 · 7 answers · asked by redhotmama 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Life isn't all about being un-stressed and always being happy. Life is about responsibility and making the most of what you've got.
My son has autism and yes it's stresful. But there's no way on earth I'd ever desert him.
You said to be nice but there's nothing nice to say about someone who wants to abandon their children. I feel the same way about guys who walk out on their kids.
2007-12-30 16:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by pinkpiglet126 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has time to have affairs, she has time to work on her marriage! I too have a disabled child. It's stressful, and sometimes hard to deal with, but this woman should take her 'affair' time and use it constructively. Respite care is available for caretakers.
This girl needs an intervention before she does something stupid.
2007-12-30 17:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to grow up and take responsibility for the children she decided to have, autistic or not. My daughter has cp and it's very difficult but I'm not going anywhere.
2007-12-30 16:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis or Michelle O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's very common for a lot of woman that's the reason why they stay in unhappy marriages when they rather get out. money, and no help to raise kids with. she will need a lot of support and help from friends and family and just be patient with her when she is ready to leave him she will.
Also a lot of women who have affairs on their husbands are looking for love and have the need to feel like they are loved. That doesnt justify her actions though. Her and husband should get counseling together and if that doesn't work then I dont know what will. And its not good to confuse the children like that.
2007-12-31 02:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by missology 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your niece's marriage isn't up to you to control, so i guess let her make her own choices.
leave it at that.
2007-12-30 17:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't asked a question, Dear. How can I help you?
2007-12-30 16:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
so, she wants to leave her kids too?
I don't really know what you're question here is ......
2007-12-30 16:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋