okay so i really like this guy and he's going out with another girl but last month he kissed me on the cheek and said he likes me and he keeps going on and off with this girl. Now he says he doesnt like me and the kiss was a dare and the story changes everytime. He even put me on his Hot list (dont ask) and i wanna ask him out but i dont know what he'll say. Hes been kinda mean to me in the past but he said it was just a cover up..etc. hes like a gangst but hes white. so any advice? so you think i should ask him out? or have a chance?
2007-12-30 16:22:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should flirt with him a little more and get him to KNOW you so that he really really wants you..wait for him to ask you out...if he doesn't then go for it yourself. if he doesnt say yeah then hes a jerk and just forget about himm. =D
2007-12-30 16:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i defenetly think that you have no chances with him and that you shouldn't ask him out specially if his a gangst those guys are just using girls to see if they can take their virginity away, anyways if his been going out with this girl and kisses you and his mean to you all he wants to do is use you and have sex with you and his girlfriend that's what you might expect from him specially if his a white gangster those "white gangsters"are just wanna be's but if you are 14 years old or something just tell him to leave you alone or if you are older tell him the same thing and if he insists on talking to you and starts to bother you tell someone that you can trust like your mom,emidiatly,that's all the advice i can possibly give you,good luck
2007-12-30 16:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i love my thuggy type guys. But i suggest stay away from him. hes playing with your feelings, he dont like you if hes going to say 'its a dare' and if he changes his story frequently. so what if he thinks your hot, im sure he finds hella girls hot, that dont mean he like you. And if he kissed you on the cheek hes just a player, forget him. And dont ask him out, i doubt ''gangsta' type guys would like it if the girl asked them out. Thats just weird in my opinion, seems a little desperate. if he doesnt ask u out then forget him.
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2007-12-30 16:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Jazzi Pooh♥™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be treated with respect and this dude ain't respecting you. He sounds like an immature little boy. You can ask him out, if you like the kind of guy that will use you up and throw you out without a second thought. Being attracted to the 'bad' boys will never bring you happiness.
2007-12-30 16:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve someone better than him. He's obviously too immature to be honest with you....and he either doesn't like you or is too embarrassed to admit to anyone else that he does. If he's already been mean to you in the past, what makes you think he'd be any better in a relationship? He sounds like a jerk to me, go find yourself a nice guy who worships the ground you walk on and appreciates every moment you're with him!!!
2007-12-30 16:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Christina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should forget abt him and move on.... seriously.... He sounds like an immature kid ..... he makes up stories all the time and to me, he is a LIAR..... then, he is involved with someone else, he is not really there for u.... Just forget about him .... he is NOT worthy to be with ! And Ok, even if one day u end up to be his gf, u will be sick with all the craps that he makes up.....
I know u really like him now and its like 1% that u will take advises from strangers on yahoo! ( most of them tell u to forget him , see) ...... so if u think he will bring u happiness then go ahead, ask him out and you will be sorry abt it ! :-)
2007-12-30 16:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. He is confused and does not know what he wants, and he will not respect you - he can't even be honest with you, since the story he is telling you is constantly changing. If you want to be miserable, by all means, ask him out!
2007-12-30 16:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm....no
i think that if he has to "cover up" liking you then he doesnt deserve you...
i think every girl deserves someone who acts the same in front of his friends as when he's alone with you.
someone who charishes who you are and what you're all about.
if he cant make up his mind then he's not worth your time
good luck
i hope this helped
:)
2007-12-30 16:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by JessShutterBug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't sounds like he could be a player of some sort.. it's not worth the risk and the pain.. move on!!
2007-12-30 16:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Love Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋