how do inexperienced guys talk to women?

Question

i suck at talking to women...what r some ways to keep conversation rolling??

Answer 1

First, don't blame yourself at being inexperienced, it's perfectly natural. Hm....ways to keep conversation rolling. I like when guys seem interested in me and not paying a lot of attention to other women. That's very annoying. Experiment. All women are different and have different interests. Try talking about a certain topic; ex. sports, movies, books and foods. If she doesn't seem interested or seems bored, move on. Give lots of eye contact and don't seem too distracted. Try to act casual and moderately interested. Don't act overly interested because then it's uncomfortable for the woman. If you are interested in her, flirt a little and make sure to seem interested.*hope it helped && best of luck!* -Olivia

Answer 2

Inexperienced guys talk to women badly. I remember. Then they get better.
Don't try to impress, they don't like it. Small talk should be just that. Not the big important things. Until you know them politics is taboo. Do not engage in debate. Keep opinion as bland as possible. These are good rules for talking to anyone you do not know. If your personalities are compatible enough conversation will come easier.
Keep subjects light, entertainment, TV shows and music are usually safe. Also give a little insight to each others personality.
Last but not least, the conversation need not " keep rolling " You can always suggest mixing in with a group. This gives more opportunity for conversation for both of you. The woman is also wondering how to do this. And if she is interested is doing her best to keep things going just like yo.

Answer 3

Well, for starters, it depends on the situation and where you are. Your conversation is either dead or alive from the opening. The ten-cent pick up lines from high school, don't work!

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Confidence in yourself is a huge factor. Dress to impress, look nice. Ask open-ended question attempting to engage her in conversation about her, her interests, hobbies, etc. When she answers, make eye contact and actually and thoughtfully listen to what she has to say. You may have some things in common. Above all, BE YOURSELF....don't try to be something your not just to impress. If your shy, let her know. Most women are easier on men that they know are shy, unless their icy bitches, in which case, smile, wish them well, abort, abort, abort! If you strike out one, try try again. If you strike out 2 in one place, find a different place and try again. Women tend to pay attention, and no one wants to be the 3rd pick.

I have never met another woman who doesn't appreciate an honest compliment.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

Honestly, all women like to talk about themselves. Anytime I find myself struggling with something to talk about, I just ask questions.

1. Where are you from?
2. What kind of music do you like?
3. Do you have brothers and or sisters?

Women don't really want to get to know you, they just want to talk about themselves and be reassured by some random guy that they are attractive. If you ask the questions above, while they are responding by going into a large monologue, just start thinking of more questions. All you have to do is look them in the eye periodically and nod your head.

Compliment their appearance, they love that. Notice small things, like their ear rings and other random stuff. If you notice a small detail about their appearance they will love it.

Answer 5

They babble a lot...talking about their latest videogame character and re-emphasizing how nervous they are by saying, "I'm really nervous, I hope I don't seem to nervous, but I'm nervous". hahaha

For real though bud, you have to seem interesting for a woman to want to talk to you, and then you have to couple that with listening to her to see what she's interested in. There's a delicate balance that cannot be learned in a book, because every conversation will be different. The key is to expose yourself to as many conversations as you can, that way when the next one comes along, you'll have learned from all the previous ones. Not even a stud is perfect, he just has more experience.

Answer 6

Hey! talk about what they like to do, Hobbies things like that can keep a conversation going, Dont ask too many yes/No answer questions its not an interview try to relax take a deep breath if you get nervous talk slowish dont rush ask what she done for xmas?Newyears, Holidays.. Holiday conversations are good it makes us remember happy times & thats how she will remember you...

Good Luck :)

Answer 7

Practice makes perfect. First, try practising on women in your life such as mother, sister, gal-pals- women you are not intimidated by first. Secondly, don't put too much thought into it, it will make it harder to keep the conversation rolling and we women can sense when a guy is trying hard to do so and it creates tension. Or causes you to say something that creates that "cricket moment" you know, when you can almost hear them chirping away. Personally I like to laugh, so if a guy can make me laugh, it almost always warms me to him and eases any tension initially present when two people meet. And yes we do like to talk about ourselves but not too much, you don't want her to feel like she is being grilled. Final tip: Just be yourself!

Answer 8

Well, there are no hard and fast rules, but generally, try to remain calm and not over eager. If you are drooling over the girl, it is not going to go well. Also, try to ask her questions and let her speak. People generally like to talk about themselves so if you can be a good listener it is going to improve your chances. Last, it is like riding a bike, you have got to just get out there and keep trying until you get the hang of it. I hope this helps.

One more thing, if you try to speak and she is just not interested, move along. If she is not interested she is not interested.

Answer 9

Just ask her about herself. Make that your focus. You're interested in her-- because let's face it, everyone likes talking about themselves. Ask her about what she likes to do, hobbies, passions, what movies she likes, books, music, you know. Things that you know about your friends, but don't know about her yet. Once you find something she's interested in, like sewing (haha) or skiing, or anything, ask her questions about that. Too many guys get nervous and either talk way too much about themselves, or they talk way too much about something else.

Questions are the key. Keep her interested. If she doesn't seem interested in the topic at hand, switch it to something else.

Answer 10

Here's a few helpful tips for you.

1. Ask about her. Interests, personality, life, etc. If she asks about you, just briefly say a few words about you and keep asking about her. If you feel you heard enough, say another few words about yourself.

2. Get to know her turn-ons and turn-offs. That way, if she mentions something important, be clear about how it relates to her.

3 Don't be nervous to ask her out. Take her somewhere cheap. (the movies, a video store, etc) After a few inexpensive dates, take her somewhere more communal (amusemtnet parks, dancing, dining, parites, etc)

And finally...

4. Don't forget to introduce her to your friends. And see if you can get her to introduce you to hers. Friends are always imporant to ask for help when in a relationship.