My boyfriend and I are 24 year old virgins.....and want to stay that way until marriage. The thing is I want to know how far is too far before marriage. I know sex is wrong, but what before that is wrong? We have made out for hours at a time....even dry humped.....is this wrong?
2007-12-30 16:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...
In christianity, you cant have sex till marriage-includes: oral sex, anal, ect
soo.... in bible standards you cant do much
I dont know how commited, or how you see your religion. But ehats what the bible says. I woulld say, that if you think that you two actually might end up getting married in the next few years...wait. It will make it so much better knowing you did.
And then you can tell your children that you really DO belive in waiting till marriage to have sex.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-30 16:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is in the wrong place. It shoud be on what other things can I do besides get close to having sex. But hormones control alot. Don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with or that you think either of you two will regret. And ask a pastor or someone you trust at your church and do this in person. It will be harder. But more lasting than what a bunch of people on Yahoo Answers can tell you.
2007-12-30 16:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by thatguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no explicit rules in the Bible, but if you want a biblical marriage you should not have met without your parents present before the marriage ceremony, and your husband should have provided your father with something of value for your hand in compensation for the ownership of yourself. Not very nice, eh?
2007-12-30 16:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isnt wrong if you are married, but before hand yes. i cant give you the answer to this question, but if you pray and ask God for help, he will show u the answer.
2007-12-30 16:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats too a approaches. on the muse of my very own journey, i will inform you the acceptable is praying extra mutually than lusting.The extra you pray mutually the less you lust. Asking God to take administration of your sexual existence will hassle-free the burden, completely. i'm specific approximately my words, as God dealt with this in my existence is a manner comparable to the suggested in the previous. seek for extra God, and he will provide you the two power of will. in case you start up enforcing regulations to one yet another, you will end-up with a Phariseic faith/courting ... very stressing and distinctive arguements.
2016-11-26 23:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking that kind of question, you have already gone too far.
2007-12-30 16:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please don't ask these people. The answer to your question is between you, your boyfriend and God.
2007-12-30 16:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wont you just get married now?
2007-12-30 16:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋