theres this guy i really like but i've liked him for a good 5 months but nothing has happened yet and i don't think anything will and i don't think its worth it anymore. I'm still young and i'm sure there will be many guys that come and go but will i ever find the right one?
2007-12-30 15:55:25 · 47 answers · asked by Beachblonde B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In your life you will find many Mr. Rights and some Mr. Right nows....Dont stress, it happens also when you least expect it and when your not looking so hard. I think people can sense when someone wants something bad and its a turn off...Its when you dont try hard, you have to beat them off with a stick LOL
2007-12-30 16:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know so I cant answer that but if you join a group in the Community or your church or a group at work and do some volenteer work that my ward off that lonly feeling and you will meet people with the same interests as you. Even a campaign for your favorite candidate can be fun and helpful , or serving holiday meals or all meals at a shelter too. It can take care of the lonliness and introduce you to people that share your thoughts and maybe get you a date which could lead to something More:0) Keep smiling too. Everything looks better with a smile , Wishing your the best of luck and God bless you.
2007-12-30 16:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by littlerascal711 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older and meet more people, you'll realize there are many people who could be the "right one." You will know you have found him when you are in a great relationship with a person who treats you well and you are happy most of the time (and vice versa). I don't believe there is just one "soul mate" for each of us. That's a really nice thought, but the reality is that not too many people marry their soul mate - and even if they do find him/her, eventually the newness of the relationship and "perfection" of the other person wears off and there will be many annoyances/negative attributes (on both sides) to deal with. Marry the one you can stand to live with!
2007-12-30 16:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cali2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should not stop liking him. It is ok to like someone from a distance, but in the meantime don't let yourself forget about you. You should try to mingle some with others. Maybe even talk with your good friend about mutual likes and dislikes. Keep yourself busy. Go to the mall, hangout sometime. Get out and keep busy. Not good to feel lonely for too long. So start now and pick the phone up or start planning for tomorrow's activities for the day! Good Luck!
2007-12-30 16:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by "J " 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will I ever find the right girl. Don't you just wish for one second someone would come in and sweep you off your feet. Don't you miss someone to love you? I do. I miss talking a walk and holding hands, eating a candle lit dinner, whispher in someones ear "i love you" i miss sitting together on the couch with the lights off watching an old sappy movie, while she lays her head on your shoulder. One day it will happen for the both of us. We'll both find the person we are looking for. I'm lonely now, but I have faith I'll meet the perfect one when the time is right for love. Good luck, give it time, Have patience. Save your time and love for somone who will love you back,
always and never forget love will never fail you if you are truly in love.
2007-12-30 16:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find the right one. But the next guy u get might not be. I was with a girl for 2 years now, and i thought she could be the one. But out relationship ended. So just remember that. But i promise u you will find the one. And that guy, try to talk to him, as i like to say you only live once. If it doesnt work out you will find someone else that you like
2007-12-30 16:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by questioneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you'll find the right person eventually. just be careful and dont fall for bad guys or anything lol. anyway, you should go talk to that guy you like. getting to know a person better is always a good idea especially if nothings going on.
2007-12-30 15:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by shoeguy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i ask myself that question a lot! but what you have to do is stop looking for Mr. Right and start looking for Mr. Right Now. Enjoy what you have and eventually that "now" part just fades away.
I'd say to give this 5-month guy another try. you can't expect him to make all the moves. Boys get nervous too! I'll bet this guy doesn't even know how you feel...am i right? if so thats your first step to getting him.
tell him how you feel. trust me, he will listen.
2007-12-30 16:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by xXUntouchableXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u think u can pursue anything with this guy?
anyways, dont worry, u will find someone. i didnt start dating till i was 20
and most likely u will date several guys before u find the right one...so that u learn what u like and dont like
my advice is to not to try very hard to get a boyfriend. it is much better if you let nature take its course! be yourself and have fun
2007-12-30 16:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by confused with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ofcourz you'll find the right one. leave that guy alone for a while and give it some time, if he comes back to you, talk to him just dont take it serious. your young , go out party!! hang out with your friends, keep your mind busy so you wouldnt think of him, and as time flies by, you will find the right one
2007-12-30 15:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋