alright everyone-
so right now i am stuck between two guys
the first [lets call him A]
-is my neighbor
-we used to be friends
-i've known him for 10+years so i know him really well
-he thinks of me as a sis.....yet sometimes he's flirty
-he's really nice
-makes me laugh
-has amazing eyes
-gorgeous
guy number 2 [lets call him K]
-i met him in september
-he asked for my email...about a week or two ago
-he was my partner for a project
-makes me laugh
-awesomely cool
-really cute
everyone says K might like me.....and im not sure of A
who should i pick?
2007-12-30 15:51:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH
i meant by "we used to be friends" as..."we used to be best friends"...we grew apart and now we're growing back together.
2007-12-30 16:03:10 · update #1
K
2007-12-30 15:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, SOS means Save Our Ship.
As for your question I have no clue, who do you like better? Are you willing to risk your friendship with A by trying a relationship and having it end up not working? Or are you sure that A is the one? With K it seems as if if you lost one he would be the better one to lose because you don't know him as much but I don't know if thats true. Pick from your heart, not from what anyone is telling you.
One fact you need to know: if you go with your heart you may end up with a great life with whatever guy you chose or you may end up with another guy. The point is that everyone goes through heartbreak but life goes on. If you do whats right and whats in your heart you'll end up where you need to be. Remember: Life is a highway, you will hit a few potholes or even get into an accident, but no matter what happens you just need to get right back up and driving 'cuz you don't wanna miss any part of your life just because of one silly little pothole! Enjoy the ride and feel the wind blowing through your hair!
Good luck!
2007-12-30 16:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by ღSaraღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know k a little better and get on a safe ground with a. Its seems your unsure about a so hang out a little more just to see if you guys are really good friends or maybe something more. K sounds up in the air right now, but it doesnt hurt to try with both!
2007-12-30 16:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds point to A as far as a relationship working out, because you know him much better. So my question to you is, what are your goals with this person? If you're just looking for fun, K will probably fit well whereas if you want something more long-term and special, A is the way to go.
2007-12-30 15:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by NunyaBizzness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally have been in that situation with 2 girls i know. but in ur case if u want a longlasting relationship i would go with A because yall have been such good friends for so long but if anything ever got rocky in the relationship and yall broke up u may ruin ur 10+ year friends ship. to date now i would go with K beacuse u also like him and if yall ever did break up u wont be loosing such a good friend.
2007-12-30 16:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the one you love, chances are that A won't work out because you guys are extremely close to each other. But K would work out seeing as you could press past the bro./sis. and date him? Does that make sense? Do you love either one of these guys? You would know if you did.
2007-12-30 15:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ruin your long-lasting friendship with A b/c of a relationship. i think you should test the waters with K, that way, if the relationship doesnt work out, you're not losing a 10 year friendship like you would if u made a move on A. hope i helped a bit! :)
2007-12-30 15:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the list you made, sounds like u like A more.... Just an observation tho - and amazing eyes are always the most attractive thing about a guy!!!
2007-12-30 15:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date your neighbor!!!! you said hes been your friend for 10+ years and he thinks of you as a sister? think about this...if you date him and it doesnt work....your gonna loose a long term friend and a "brother" things wont be the same after that. you just met the other guy. take a risk on him. im telling you from experience.
2007-12-30 15:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know "K" better, then make that decision. Also, it's kind of important to know if "A" really likes you in the way you are imagining.
Most importantly, make sure you know these guys well before making big decisions.
2007-12-30 15:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by cdavis337 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think A
you probably know him better, for a long time,
plus you say hes nice, and K you met not a long time ago,
and you say A has amazing eyes and is gorgeous ! ;)
so you can ask him to go out sometime for a movie or something
or you can ask K to do that so you could get to know him better,
depends how you feel next to them !
Good Luck !!
xoxox
2007-12-30 15:56:42 · answer #11 · answered by poop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋