is that so they will be rememebered does it turn u on? if u dont really want them then y would u take away something so special?
2007-12-30 15:38:43 · 19 answers · asked by NightOwl☾ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I really only want to have sex with a virgin, (me being a virgin too) because it makes it a more special moment. Honestly having sex with a million girls is kinda dirty and I dont wanna get any STDS. It's best to wait for the right moment with the woman you love instead of just having sex for the fun of it. I know I'm probably the only guy who thinks this, but I want sex to be special and sacred, not just something I do with random girls for the pleasure.
2007-12-30 15:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by kittybella 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think it goes deeper than hurting people. Most guys would be happier to marry a virgin. If you do have a true relationship the fact that she is a virgin seems almost sacred - as if she is giving you something of herself that is special and without comparison. In my experience, unfortunately from a relationship that failed, I have found that sex with a virgin was most memorable and we still find it dificult to shake that 'connection'. I also know a woman who was a virgin and married a man who was a virgin at close to thirty. They had an awesome experience she said. The society has taken great principles and turned them into what we now have. When I was going to high school I did a research. Every girl I interviewed of twenty two would not marry a virgin man. One told me she did not want an idiot in her bed. That included my best friend - a girl who I had started to look at deferently. That very week she wanted us to become more than 'just friends'. I refused her and then cried because on my honor and what I had learnt I would not hurt her. She was a future girl. Right then I was on the mission to 'qualify' for the future girl by conning the girl in the past. That is what the society wanted - a moral sacrifice. By the time I fooled enough girls to qualify for her someone else had fooled her to qualify for some other. It is not about boys and girls being at loggerhead. It is one big picture and humanity is failing in principle. If I had just accepted my virgin then and she would just be satisfied with my inexperience. See? Peace
2007-12-30 23:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by highthoughts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys I know like the idea of a girl being "unused". Personally, I'd rather have a girl whose already lost it; just because a girl isn't a virgin it doesnt mean she's used up, and besides that they're more fun than virgins.
2007-12-30 23:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by andrsj3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a challenge. That's why thay like it when girls play hard-to-get. And sleeping with someone who has a lot of experiance, or a slut, isn't much of a challenge. But if someone was a virgin and they wanted to stay that way, guys think its more fun to earn "it" rather than getting it. Hope I helped! :]
2007-12-30 23:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by madeUsmile:] 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With guys everything is a competition whether its sports or who can buy the better car. Sadly its the same with virgins who can be the girls first.
2007-12-30 23:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, virginity isn't special. Don't place it on a pedestal it doesn't deserve.
I don't know why some guys like to go for virgins. If I like a person, their sexual experience isn't important to me, I want to be with them.
2007-12-30 23:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
umm well i dont know that many that try to get with virgins, actually most try to stay away so if they want to have sex they dont have to go through the first time. maybe some guys just like taking it, and seeing that they can cause some pain...i would guess that they have a very small member
2007-12-30 23:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by XñΘ×ØÑΣ×└Ö√ËŠ×╫ë®X 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Guys want to sleep with virgins because it kinda like a game, you know like I am going to be the one who got her to finally give it up, I am the special one.. it makes them feel like they won the "prize".
2007-12-30 23:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i agree w/ Realdeal im a virgin to and i want my first to be w/ a virgin but i know its gonna be tough to find the "right one" that is also a virgin.
2007-12-31 00:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a disease standpoint alone, wouldn't you like a guarantee that you won't catch a sexually transmitted disease?
2007-12-30 23:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by NunyaBizzness 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋