first off im a 21 year old guy who is shy and has like only a few friends and i never see them any more so i don't get out much.
what sports or activities do chicks like seeing guys do?
i have like no interests so i need some hobbies and i was thinking what should i do just to get out there and meet women?
also should i go out to bars with a friend?
2007-12-30 15:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've said this many time on Yahoo answers. If you go to bars you will primarily be surround my women looking for mid to short term relationships. Bars are where soo many types of people go to undwind and just get numbers for food and sex. Blatantly put. If you want to find a nice girl... then try online dating it works for many people. I know it;s unconventional but try it you have nothing to lose... right?! And go to bars with friends. just don't go too much and end up drinking too much. Women don't like guys that drink a lot.
2007-12-30 15:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Weapon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to bars with a freind is a good option. Since your shy bring a freind who is a ladies man and can spark a conversation for you a bit and be a good wing man. If you want a good hobbie join a gym and start lifting weights and toning. You will look better,feel better and boost your confidence while being around alot of women.
2007-12-30 23:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beach volleyball, basketball, baseball, football...anything physical like that, women love it.
Depending on the type of girl you want to meet, is where you need to go. If you want a girl that's a provider/enabler, try volunteering at a nursing home or hospital. If you want a girl that knows a lot about alcohol, apply to work at a bar.
Figure out what kind of girl you want and then put yourself in situations where you can talk to them.
2007-12-30 23:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by NunyaBizzness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy, you might want to put yourself in a situation where you can comfortably relate to other people your own age. Perhaps a class in cooking, flower arrangement, or volunteer work would allow you a find a match.
If yoiu prefer someone who drinks a lot, perhaps a bar is your first choice :)
2007-12-30 23:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Skeptic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dancing, women love to dance, so start some lessons. Go clubbing, you will meet a lot of new friends if you learn how to dance. Also, not that many women like sports.
2007-12-30 23:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find a dude that is into art attractive so maybe take a painting class? i don't know every woman is different. Also the chicks you would meet in a bar will be annoying skanks so don't go that route
good luck!!
2007-12-30 23:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by designer K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A book store like Borders or Barns and Noble. Or you can just be friendly and talk to people wherever you go. You will find people are pretty open to a quick chat during their boring day.
or Church, cafes, singles' events
2007-12-30 23:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bars aren't always the answer. I like a guy who has mechanical know how or plays football.
2007-12-30 23:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sport that girls like is football, but what girls look in a guy is personality.
2007-12-30 23:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going to bars to meet women, bad idea.
2007-12-30 23:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by slayer maniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋