i just asked the following Q;
is it ok for an 18 year old an 14 year old girl to be together (15 on this month )
and you said it was illegal well most of you and no its NOT B/c THERE NOT HAVING SEX!
there just bf&&gf /w out the sex!
the most they do is make out
so why do you find it so wrong?
2007-12-30 15:21:59 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think its wrong,
theyre only four years apart.
n people grow up to marry between 5 and 10 years apart,
even more!
so i dont see why THAT relationship should be any different.
2007-12-30 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by ☠ 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
How much of a developmental difference is there between a 4 year old and and 8 year old!? Or a newborn and a 4 year old? THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE! This is how most people see a 14 and 18 year old. That 18 year old must be very, very immature and a bit perverted if he thinks he has something in common with a 14 year old.
It is wrong because a 14 year old is a CHILD and an 18 year old is an ADULT. So, an 18 year old is committing a crime if he is engaging in any type of activity with a baby.
2007-12-30 15:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because shes still a little kid...shes 14...how do u think u have a grasp on life when ur 14? people that are 80...still dont know most of the **** life will throw at u...anything can happen...people that young are still naive to the dark side of this world...which is sadly just as big if not bigger then the bright side...there are alot of wacko's and sickos out there...and even though im one of the last people that would agree with 'the system' or the 'justice' system...it is put thier with the intention of keeping the majoirty of us safe and breathing...do u know what this world would be like without police? with armies? it would be anarchy...now this might be a bit much for u to absorb but thats exactlly why ur friend shouldnt be dating a 18 year old...she knows nothing of the real world yet...as much as teenagers think they know everything...believe i was one once and thought i knew everything...believe u will get a slap across the face from realality soon enough
2007-12-30 15:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a big age difference. OK, so you're not having sex ... no laws broken, yet.
I'd ask the question, what's wrong with an 18 year old boy that he's got a 14 year old girlfriend? You should date girls closer to your own age. Most likely, you can not (that's what's wrong with you) and that's why you're involved with a 14 year old girl.
If I were her parents, I would not allow it. It's just a matter of time before you start pressuring her for sex.
2007-12-30 15:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually it is illegal depending on what state your in. the state of consent is usually 16 in most states and some states have a 3 or 4 year difference for teens to make it legal if they are having sex. If there not having sex then there's nothing wrong with it. Better question is why do need to prove to people there "wrong" about there opionon. An opionon is just an opionon. If you didn't care you won't reiterate this question again.
2007-12-30 15:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by lissts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this...why would a 18 year old want a 14 year old when usally 18 year olds are alot more attractive...he/she must be insecure or messed up in the head...sex or not it is wrong ..illeagal or not it it morally messed up...
depends on age...if it was a 30 and a 26 year old(both 4 years apart) itz not that bad but its just because there younger
hope this helps...
2007-12-30 15:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it in my opinion but there are disadvantages in it. How will they be able to see each other? They won't be going to the same school and they'll be busy with their own respective things. Also, they won't be able to have many common interests, there are things forbidden to a 14 year old that 18 year olds can do such as drinking. The 18 year old will have to wait a while before having sex with her so he may try to pressure the 14 year old into having sex or having sex with other people because he can't help it. There are things to consider even though it's not "illegal".
2007-12-30 15:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because an 18 yr. old is at the point in life where he WILL want sex. A 14 yr. old is NOT ready to raise a child yet. An 18 yr. old is an adult. A 14 yr. old is not. WRONG on so many levels. If you had a daughter, would you want that for her?
2007-12-30 15:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by GoddessGia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK she's a minor how many 12 or 14 year olds normally date 21 or 18 year old Men?! or have anything in common with them at all?!
"the most they do is make out"
LOL Come on who are you kidding? most People with common sense know where that leads and her Parents are suppose to take your word for it that she won't hop into bed with you and get it on. Yeah :( *sigh*
2007-12-30 15:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by triton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all it takes is the 14 year old to get mad and tell people that the 18 year old forced her to do something she didn't want to do and the 18 year old will get in big trouble. besides why would any 18 year old want to go out with a 14 year old, i don't care how cool or cute she is the only think your looking for is sex.
2007-12-30 15:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 with 14 is illegal, I believe in ALL states.
The age of consent in SOME states is 15, others 16, still other 17.
Look it up on the web, don't rely on your friends knowledge.
2007-12-30 15:26:08 · answer #11 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋