It has affected me a lot. My dad has been gone for half this year, I had to move to a different country and live with my other family. I missed, Thanksgiving, Halloween, Christmas, and now New Years. I miss my dad a lot.
2007-12-30 14:46:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
It has affected my family and I quite a bit. I have served two year-long tours in Iraq. During the second time, my unit lost two guys who I knew fairly well. It pained me to hear of their deaths at the time but I knew in my heart that they died for a great cause. My wife and I also have two sons who have recently enlisted in the Army although the youngest is still waiting to graduate high school. I am concerned for both of them that they may have to deploy but I do understand that it is part of the job. My primary concern is for my wife who is torn that her boys and husband may be deployed in the future.
Throughout my career (16 years), I have served through several conflicts and seen the results of them. While I do not like war (no sane person does, especially the military), I do understand that it is necessary at times to defend the nation and not only protect its citizens but at times the citizens of other nations. I serve proudly, am grateful to call many others my fellow brothers and sisters, and love to defend those who are incapable of doing it themselves. God bless and take care.
2007-12-30 15:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by TioDice70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your Dad is gone a lot. It really sucks when a loved one is gone for the Holidays and special events in one's life. My husband, son-in-law and one of my son's have been gone a lot also. The first two are Army and the last is a Marine. What they do is important to the survival of this nation. Freedom isn't free, it is paid for by the blood of those who serve in the military and it is a price that must be paid by each generation to insure freedom for the next generation.
Be sure to write, email and speak with your Dad each chance you get, it will make a difference for both of you. Tell him I said 'Thank you' for his service. Thank you to you too, for the sacrifices you make each day he is gone in defence of this nation.
2007-12-30 15:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Shan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well , I'm going to be honest. This war made my husband 100% disabled. Not that I'm saying he isn't proud of being a Marine and serving his country. I'm not saying that at all, before somebody gives me a thumbs down or anything else.
My husband was severely injured in 2003. I won't get into detail how but he has had his back sliced open and closed several times, he has had surgery on both his knees, he is partially deaf in his left ear, and I wont even get into PTSD.
My husband made a very big sacrifice in this war. And I'm proud of him.
2007-12-30 15:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by USMCgrlandMommy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I lost a very close friend, and several other friends along with the hearing in my right ear due to an IED. Yes, I missed christmas/birthdays and t-day, but id skip those to bring back my friends and hearing, but such the life of a soldier.
2007-12-30 15:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was your dad in Armed Forces? If so b/c of people like him, I didn't have to worry a lot. Bills have risen and I could not visit the Holy Land in Jerusalem. But I still traveled to India, France, and London. Also, some people where a bit hostile after they found out that I was American.
2007-12-30 14:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by skiddoo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My dad was in the army when my mum got pregnant with me, and because of his commitment to it amongst other things, I never knew him for the best part of my life. I was 17 when i finally got to meet him, and the biggest feeling i had for him was pity, because he'd missed out on every major event of my life. He hates himself for it, but now we just try make the best of the time we have together now.
So I know exactly how you're feeling. Don't let your dad miss out on everything, you'll both regret it - keep in touch with him as much as you can and let him know how everything is going. Don't worry, it's not forever, he'll come home to you soon enough. just remember how much you love him and let him know that :)
2007-12-30 14:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel D 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It really hasn't affected me yet,
I have 2 kids in the military and my son will be heading over to Iraq sometime next year.
At that point I will have an effect on me.. I will be placing yellow ribbons on my trees until he comes home safe..
We need to support our men and women who are fighting for our freedom..
I do fell your loss and I pray for your fathers safe return
USN-Veteran
2007-12-30 14:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Taz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Coming home made me realize how lucky I am to live in the US. Missing out on holidays and all that was a bummer but I was lucky to come home in one piece safe and sound. Some of my friends weren't so lucky.
2007-12-30 14:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's made me and my family and country safer. It has made me mourn a lot of fallen young Patriots. And it has made me proud to know that my country still has people like all of those young Patriots ready to serve and sacrifice for their fellow countrymen.
2007-12-30 14:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by seniorchiefretired 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
My appreciation and determination to protect freedom for ALL people is stronger than ever. My desire to see the world rid of evil, all who feel they have the right to impose their views on others, or who put no value on human life.
2007-12-30 14:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Think for yourself 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋