He always asked me out in the past (a couple years ago) & I always said no because I wasn't ready for a relationship..but then a couple months ago he asked & I was ready & I liked him a lot and so I said yes..now after we have been going out it seems like he is less interested or something..when he's with me he always seems like he likes me a lot, but when he isn't with me he never bothers to call. he claims he is working all the time, so because of that we can never hang out. We already got in a couple fights because he wouldn't call me when he said we were going to hang out..but he would apologize for being a jerk but I still feel like he is just taking this too casually & I was expecting more from him.. I haven't seen him since christmas eve..and I just don't know how I can really tell if he is playing me or not. What should I look for? I have a hard time trusting people & I just don't want to get hurt if I can help it. Please give me your opinions thanks.
2007-12-30 14:30:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever heard of the saying. "You want what you can't have?" Well, now that he has what he wants, the thrill of the chase is gone.
2007-12-30 14:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
he has what he wanted out of you. you were the hard to get woman, not that he has gotten you. he not interested in you. this is to knew as a couple to be fighting. and you said the key you were expecting more from him. and your not getting it. move on lady he made time to coming after you, he can still make time to keep you. there are no real signs for a player, we don't read people mines, could be working hard for something special for you, or may not. talk to the brother and find out what's up. and about getting hurt that is a part of life.
2007-12-30 15:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda_lorraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys will pursue a woman just to see if he can get her. Then, once he has her he looses interest.
It sounds like this is what happened with you and your "boyfriend". He got what he wanted (you) and now he has lost interest.
He is obviously not interested in a relationship since he doesn't call you and it's been almost a week since you have seen him. Clearly, he does not see the relationship as serious.
Chalk it up as experience and move on.
2007-12-30 14:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sumpthinspec02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by goldthorpe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.... It's only been 2 months and you are ragging his
a s s? Did he give you a Christmas gift? Maybe he really is working a lot. You should let your love grow instead of being so clingy and possessive! I wouldn't doubt that you haven't scared him a bit and he's probably trying to figure out what he should do next or is even trying to get up the courage to tell you that he wants out. Ignoring you and perhaps giving you the hint that way is his way.
2007-12-30 14:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm in the same boat..
It sounds to me like he might be with someone else.
If he starts picking fights at little things then thats another sign..
Even if hes not, he needs to realize you need to have some attention in a relationship.
I say you take a break for awhile, and make him miss you.
If you have doubts of your relationship, you should leave it.
You should be 100% happy with every person you date
2007-12-30 14:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by kelso mcfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you got it right. Specially, if you all ready being intimate, forget it. He'll be gone pretty soon.
2007-12-30 14:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 100% sure he's with some1 else otherwise he wouldn't be ignoring you.
2007-12-30 14:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hes with some1 else move on dont get attached or you'll get hurt
2007-12-30 14:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋