What is Sex to you?

Question

Many people have their different views about sex, and how it relates to love/relationships/romance/flings. What is the ideal view of sex in your opinion?

Answer 1

Sex is totally different then making love to some one in a relationship. Sex is just the physical act and nothing more but when you add love and caring to it it is much better and more satisfying then just getting your rock off. aking love is very important in a relationship

Answer 2

to me, it was a way to feel loved, even though I knew you can have sex without being in love. It was a way to get out of the stress and sadness when I went through a hard time...

but now, that I'm in a relationship, and I love him, and I know he loves me back, I feel sex is a way to feel close to each other, like a connection, because I enjoy it even more when I see he enjoys it too...

So to me, the ideal view is this one... it's a way to express our love... but it's not the only way we show it....

I think that when it is meaningless, there's something missing, you can enjoy it for sure, but inside you, you know you need more.

Answer 3

To me sex is a way of enjoyment but that enjoyment thru sex can only be shared to someone you love in order to reach the ultimate feeling and not just to take out your frustrations or just exploration.

Answer 4

i feel that sex shouldn't just be done for the hell of it. sex should be taken seriously especially now a days theres so many different things going around and so many people [ especially teens] are getting pregnant. sex too me is when you have someone that you love dearly and you respect each other and you feel that you wanna spend the rest of your life with that person.

Answer 5

Sex with someone you love is much richer and more fulfilling than having sex without a relationship. And yes, I've experienced both.

Answer 6

To me sex goes hand and hand with love. I think cuddleing and kissing is all good but when you make love to someone it's the closest your ever gonna be with that person. Sex is good but when you love the one your with it makes it a million times better.

Answer 7

Sex should be a connection between 2 people, exploring, erotic and fun all at the same time.

If your not leaving the moment smiling and relaxed then your not doing it right, or your partner isn't.

Answer 8

I think that sex should happen when you're ready to. Sometimes you can love someone and not be ready for sex. Or, you can be ready for sex and not be in love. The choice is up to you, but you just need to feel ready when it happens. And for God's sake use condoms!!

Answer 9

Duh- fourth hole-
After years of archaeological and anthropological research, scientists have finally found the ancient answer to the fourth hole mystery: the cervix, or cervices. After years of deep penetration experiments, scientists, as well as adult film stars, have found amazing results when deep, consistent pressure is applied during heterosexual intercourse. When the cervix is consistently permeated, a third, previously unknown type of orgasm can be reached. Such an orgasm, in ancient Greek called a squeptoplasmy, can only be reached through an advanced fourth hole maneuver. Such moves have to be performed for sometimes over an hour, as deep and forceful as most males can muster. Extreme well-endowment is not necessary, but a man should at least be average in girth and length. One note of caution: squeptoplamsy can result in women needing such maneuvers to orgasm at all, and they will often demand fourth hole maneuvers in a sometimes violent fashion. Good luck, and good penetration!

Answer 10

sex is just contact. there are no feelings. Making love is different. but sex is just an act.