ok so im really fustrated please give me advise?

Question

ok so me and my ex fiance brok up about 3 weeks ago, i cant stand him, and im about to get a restarianing order on him because of all the **** he is doing. but he said i was ugly and fat and i just want your adivse to what you think


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Answer 1

You don't look fat and ugly to me. He is just being a jerk.

Answer 2

ugh. another one. okay- well since you're hitting highschool- you'll have more people there that you DONT know- then people you DO know. SO- if you go to the school just dressed emo- everyone else will think you've been like that for a while. and for people you DO know- well if you've got a myspace- take a few pictures wearing those clothes- poeple you know will see them, and realize you're wearing them. and you probably wont see most of the other pople you know. and if you come to school 1 way- and then change after a month or two- people will think you're more of a poser.

Answer 3

You're def not fat, and I wouldnt say ugly, so pull that hair off your face. You look like you've been caught in a wind storm! You shouldnt hide that face!
He's probably trying to get over you and by convincing HIMSELF you're ugly and puttin you down makes it easier for him to let go of the loss. He sounds like a jerk, I personally would get dressed up, show him what you're really made of and have some fun without that loser!

Answer 4

You look great. Smile more, be happy he's gone, and move on to a better life. Get the restraining order if you need to, at the very least - talk to the police about it so you have a good idea of what's involved.

Answer 5

Well I don't really know if a restraining order really does any good but that is your decision. The best thing for you is just forget about him completely. He is saying things like that just to belittle you because he feels intimidated. Move on and try to enjoy your life free.

Answer 6

You are neither ugly or fat.

Regarding the restraining order, you'll need proof that he is harrassing/stalking/ threatening you, so rather than worry about your looks, you'd be better off writing down everytime he does something wrong and calling the cops and reporting him if he threatens you.

Good luck.

Answer 7

you had a finace?? you look way to young to be almost married !! your not ugly, your ex is ugly for even leaving you AND calling you ugly. yeaa he sounds like a jerk. dont get a restraining order, get either a can of mace, or an abercrombie model as your new boyfriend you can do it !!

Answer 8

Dude, your ex-fiance is a f***. How are you ugly and fat, you're hot! The monroe piercing is sexy! If you want a real man, holla right here at ya boy Bryan! YOOOOOO!!!

Answer 9

okie first off you are not fat one bit, guys are jerks & i have experience in that. if i were you i would just forget about him, get the restraining order if you honestly think its required. and its best to get out of a relationship like that expescially if your about to get married, now you have an idea of how marriage might end up like..

Answer 10

Now you know that you are not ugly and fat! All guys say stuff like that when they are mad, they want to hurt your feelings! Make you cry! Good for you for finding out now!

Answer 11

So tell him in which case he's lucky not to be marring you and to move on.

No I don't think you look ugly or fat in the photo's. In fact you look condfident to me. Why not continue on and not worry about what he says?