2007-12-30 14:09:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, what better way to get to know someone than sex? Thats knowing them about as well as you can get on a first date.
2007-12-30 14:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rainy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isa ;it is a very good question ! just because everyone now at
days wants sex on the first date it doesn't mean you must go along with it ,that's really a matter of self respect ,morals and
believes ,ask yourself one simple question ! do you consider yourself someones' satisfaction object ? no right ,sex should
be ,someones desire to love fully another person ,but not just
for one night ,or a few times there should be feelings behind the act of making love ,one thing is just to have sex and another to love someone in mind ,body and soul ,you'll find the right person in due time ., I hope it helps
2007-12-30 14:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Santiago L. A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all people have sex on the first date. If someone is willing to do you like that, they're not really serious about you or your feelings. I have to know someone well before I give up my goods. I was never one to sleep with strangers.
2007-12-30 14:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't know either. Satan is taking over the world!!! Nah jk. Well, there are STILL SOME people (merely 10% of the world's population I suppose) still doing it old school and get to know each other before they do anything on bed together. (sex). I myself didn't have sex on my first date and I won't do it until I'm married. Love is just something that's overdone lately. Geez. Love is definitely NOT sex, people just get it wrong.
And don't get me wrong, my ex once tried to rape me before I beat the hell outta him.
To those people who 'loves' sex and thinks sex is cool, hey, watch out for HIV, AIDS, and other diseases. After you got infected, you won't be cool anymore, haha!
And people who wait for sex until after marriage, doesn't mean that they do it because no one wants to have sex with them. They're more patient and they care about their health.
2007-12-30 14:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Matsu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These days things go too fast. Most young people don't have the paitence to wait or get to know their partner. There is no real romance in most relationships, it's more about the physical. Courtships are a thing of the past, which is a sad thing.
2007-12-30 14:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy_Suto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. It seems like these guys will stick their d**k in anything and I'm not a bad looking chick.
I would be very leary of someone like that cuz you never know who they're putting it in.
I have done the first night thing once and it turned out to be a long term hot affair; but I got lucky.
2007-12-30 14:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everything kids see today is geared towards sex...look at the 10,11,12 years old stars...they look like they are 20. so no, unless you know someone first...then date..then enjoy the anticipation, the thinking about the person...make it last. sex has no intimacy, which in the end turns out to be the best part.....no one knows anyone ...now you have made me cry....
2008-01-01 13:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Stevie Jae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know(if there even is a date at all)
People can do what they want, but I know I couldn't.
Dating and sex is something meaningful to me. I couldn't have sex or even kiss someone I just met
(Oh and I have had sex, but with only one person who was a long term boyfriend. We didn't even kiss until like the 3 or 4th date)
2007-12-30 14:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by A 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Hey baby, sex is fun. I've done that many times, sex on the first date. I even married one chick I did that with. Who knows? Maybe you should try it sometime, sex feels real good and you might even have a good time. Why the hell wait?
2007-12-30 14:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by burtontexjap 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I sure as hell don't. I've haven't had many bf's, I make a point of talking and being friends for a long time about 4-8 months lol. It weeds out the bad ones who won't wait. I can't complain I've been successful in my long term relationship.
2007-12-30 14:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Alex*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋