Last Night my little cat got hit by a car and I had to bury her and everything.My heart is broken so please no responses telling me Its just a cat!!! I also have been getting close with this guy but he went home today SO,What are ideas on how to feel not so alone and Happier!
2007-12-30 14:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by UdoNtKnoWm3 4 in Pets ➔ Cats
Thank you everyone for being so understanding and compassionate I appreciate it so so much.
2007-12-30 14:22:32 · update #1
yeahh these ppl are right....it is NOT jst a cat its ur family member and a best friend.... i lost my cat in the car accident also like last week..... it was my only best friend i could trust..... i cry like every night for her..... i jst wish for some way i could go back in time or something to get her back to life,..... my friends say that it happened cuz God needs good souls to be with him.... i also lost my 2 parakeets....they were eaten by my pet rats.... =[
2007-12-30 14:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Soffiex3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is sooo NOT just a cat. A cat is more then a pet. (Sorry this may not help) but a dog is more then a cat. So u don't feel so alone talk to your friends on your computer. You have to have aim or som other im service. If that dosn't work try callling someone who cares. Like a grandmom or aunt or cousin. Make sure it is someone that will listen. A busy dad who works a 70 hour shift and if preping for a meeting is not a good example. Anyway the point is make sure they will confrot you and make you feel somewhat better. What i'm about to tell you next works for somepeople and not others look through pics and find ones of goods times you guys had together. Some people like to get a new cat right away. Some like to ease into the thought of that. To cheer up find a way to lol or some1 who will make u lol. Just try something out of the orradary. When my bro. died in a motorcycle crash my dad was shicked but became not as upset (he still is to this day) by hanging around people he loves like me and my many st. sises! Please cheer up!
2007-12-30 14:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Lace. I lost my 100lb German Shepard Dingo a few months ago (http://myspacetv.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=21919866). I was there to pick his body up from the street and to say it was heartbreaking is like not describing it at all. I went through a deep depression and my sister was unconsolible for a month or so. Though the best thing to do is get another one at a shelter that is suffering as you are - though for no reason. Im not telling you to replace him, just to put it in the back of your mind as best you can and get another bud that will bring you as much love and friendship as the last. I feel very sorry for you and offer you my full condolences. Loosing a pet is like loosing a child, but the quicker you give another one a home the quicker the immense short term reality of it will go away. Best of luck~
2007-12-30 14:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dru M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Sweetie, it's not just a cat. She was your friend and you have every right to cry. Cats become members of our family and it's devastating when they die. Take this as a hard lesson learned about letting your cat out unsupervised. When you're ready, consider adopting another kitty from the pound or shelter and use what you've learned to give her a great life. Time will make it better. I lost a kitty 8 months ago and I still cry for her. This poem helped me put things in perspective. Maybe it will help you.
http://www.catterys.de/gedichte/kgvv.pl?1032046010.dat
2007-12-30 14:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss:( I too am an animal lover and have lost my best friends. And it isn't just a cat she was and will always be a beloved member of your family! If I were you I would wait a few weeks to get over your recent loss and then go to a shelter and adopt a new kitty to love you and be loved by you. Again I am truly sorry for your loss.
2007-12-30 14:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Katprsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss of pets from any cause can be upsetting but when it happens suddenly it can be as traumatic as the death of a family member. Treasure the memories and when you feel the need again, find a new cat to fill your life with joy again.
You are in my heart this New Year,
Rose P.
2007-12-30 14:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by rose p 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh, i am so sorry. of course its not just a cat. I know how it feels to lose a pet. I lost a lot of pets. and i also lost my 2 cats to coyotes. i feel better because i love animals, and i love animals so much. I always interact with animals, and i always feel better when i see an animal, and get to pet them and play with them. i know it hurts to lose your cat, i know it does. But I would get another kitten if i were you. Just give it a try. I know there is plenty of love in your heart for other animals.
Your cat is in a better place. Believe me. I wish you the best
Love always,
jay
2007-12-30 14:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cat also got ran over by a car last year, and i was really sad. Try not to think of what happend instead go hangout with your friends or meet them to go do something fun.Hope I helped!
2007-12-30 14:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lace,
You have every right to grieve this loved member of your family... Now get down to the shelter before they put your new kitten to sleep.
Hugs,
PennyAnn
2007-12-30 19:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I am so sorry.
I really feel for you , losing a cat is like losing your best friend.
Its never easy.
I always think of my darling Penny , she died 2 yrs ago now and I will never forget her.
Think of the good times , the happy times and the joy she gave you.
At least she is no longer in pain.
happy memories
2007-12-30 14:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Byte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋