I am 25 yrs old now and i dont develop crushes anymore?

Question

i just like someone a bit or i dont like them at all, is that wierd, arent we supposed to develop crushes

Answer 1

No, maturity, rrrrr, whats up with people and their romantic bs ideals of how love is? Ether way, no as you mature "getting off" on someones apparence would get harder and harder to do, espacially at 25, I'm 26, and in the last 2 years have realized I hate hot woman, (woman I would usually have "crushes on") because they represent a secert I've learned about woman thru my MATURITY, if I can't have her for the long-haul she isn't going to even get close, or even dent, my satisfaction. In the end, we learn, we need more then just sex, a cute face, and one night. So EXTREMELY hard to fall for a person just becuase they act cool and look good. Right now, i'm more likly to have a "crush" on a nerdy, decent looking, extremely driven, moral, open-minded goofy lady, then some cute, slick, hottie...... but even that would have to turn into LOVE really, quick or else, my attentions would wan.... such is the nature of maturity, use to be, it was easier to fall in love with the "hope" of a relatinoship for a person. As you get older, "hope" is a harder thing to hold on to, best of luck with yourself and your interpersonal relationships....