Besides the fact that you may tell you love us, how do we know for sure?
2007-12-30 11:43:53 · 17 answers · asked by gabrielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Real love would be when I turn off the game to listen to you, WITHOUT being asked to do so
2007-12-30 11:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We first tell you, then we show you. Don't go by what you see on TV with 'I Love New York', or 'Flavor of Love'. Young women and young men don't know love from a telephone pole when they start to meet the opposite sex.
One other tip; don't be 'man crazy' or 'boy crazy'. Let HIM find YOU. But YOU have to be ready for love. Like the old school song says: "You Can't Hurry Love".
These days, folk get too 'crazy' over meeting folk 'in a hurry'. Don't be in a rush. If you are 'breaking up' with someone, you have to have time to heal...otherwise you will make bad decisions. There are women who have caught a man on the rebound (and vice versa) and he wasn't 'all that'. In fact, the best way you can tell about the character of someone you date; run him or her by your family or closest friends of the SAME sex. You'll be amazed at what comes out in the discussions.
That wraps it up!
2007-12-30 19:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ramester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike the song lyrics it is not in his kiss. It is in his eyes. Look right into his eyes when he says I love you and if they are shielded then he is holding back and telling you what he wants you to hear (for whatever reason) if you can 'see' into his heart then you will knoiw if he is telling the truth.
After that it is by his actions is he thoughtful about you without wanting a 'reward'?
If you aren't sure then it probably means he isn't either.
2007-12-30 19:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by noeusuperstate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they tell you they love you and they act like they love you, they probably do. Next time your boyfriend says he loves you, ask him why he does, and if he can come up with a convincing enough argument, then he loves you for sure.
2007-12-30 19:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Conrad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...i dont know a lot about love...but i guess you can tell by the way we men look at you women...if a guy cant stop looking at you with dreamy eyes it means he loves you...and pay attention to the small details the guy makes...like smelling your hair...taking your hand...touching your face and so....and hey you can tell when you start making the guy feel bad ...like sad and stuff...
2007-12-30 19:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont cuz most girls think we lie when we say "i love you" but ussaly when i say i love you to my gf (which i dont have any more) i would look her in the eyes every time n take her hands and say it i meant it evry time but you want eye contact n touch not like sexual touch but love touching
2007-12-30 19:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a good hug or just time together is just as important as any other sexual type of contact. i dont really know how to describe it but you probably should be able to feel it in a good hug =).
2007-12-30 19:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by patton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can speak just as well as we can. Just open the mouth and let the words flow......... You could trust me about something like that.
2007-12-30 19:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by kb9kbu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We fix our hair make petty jokes and act nervous
2007-12-30 19:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We let you hold the TV remote control.
2007-12-30 19:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋