I know my bio mom but I dont live with her either. She wont tell me anything else except his name. She claims she doesnt know anymore. Which doesnt make me feel all that great either having a mother that doesnt really know who my father is. Im in foster care and they said the man that I thought was my dad might not be. They said I have two more potential dads. So how do I find out who is my real dad? On my birth certificate it said father unknown and it doesnt even say what city i was born in. All I know is their name. I dont know if that would get me very far. I dont have alot to spend on those agencies either. So what do I do?
2007-12-30 11:38:07 · 4 answers · asked by bbygrlboo11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am sorry you are having to go through this. Can you ask your social worker if they are contacting these men? I would think that the state would be interested in doing dna testing so that your bio dad could be in your life possibly, as well as helping to support you. Ask, and then if they are not doing anything, ask why not. Also ask if there is any way you can do anything on your own.
2007-12-30 11:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by TC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Augh! I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. You sey you know your fathers name, right? Ok start there with a search of that name in the city or town specific to where you live or your mom and bio dad lived. This could narrow the search. Then asked residents like a mailman or policemen if they knew your family. Social services might help you do this. In the world of technology you can almost find anyone. I wish you the best and I will pray for your success. Don't give up!!
2007-12-30 11:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that your situation is not unique.
Take a look at the TV show, "Maury". All those women going on there, having 10 men or more tested for paternity of their child/children.
What is wrong with this society that women sleep with dozens of men then have to play a guessing game as to who the father is?
Good luck, I would say that once you turn 18, get in your mother's face and do whatever it takes to force her to name ALL of the men she slept with during the month that she got pregnant with you, and then find each of those men and DEMAND a paternity test from each.
2007-12-30 11:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Barney Blake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to google it first!! There are many different ways of doing this
2007-12-30 12:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋