i have a boring personality and do you know how to have a a fun personality? i hate this about myself but i just am very dull. i want to have a fun personality to attract friends and boys, please help me!
2007-12-30 11:36:32 · 6 answers · asked by Sophia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a friend light a fire under your ***! Just kidding... Write goals of things that you would like to do. Get involved with sports. Join a fitness club, buy a bike and ride, go jogging, do you have a pet? Take a vacation and let it all hang out. Listen to music that has an upbeat tempo.
I went through a divorce and I am lonely but one day while shopping for new sheets for my bed, I saw a beautiful lady (way outta my league) in the same area of the store, well I grabbed a pack of sheets walked up to hear and asked her what the "thread count" meant on the pack? She helped me out (she had a big smile on her face). I never did anything like that... It felt great!!! So what I am trying to say is "sometimes you have to take chances". There is nothing wrong with a bit of flirting, it makes your heart race with happiness...
Good luck to you! Happy New Year!!! Get it??? HAPPY-NEW-YEAR!!!
2007-12-30 11:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by joeschaffer1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find friends to hang out with. Think of something completely off the wall and ridiculous, and do it. Find a hobby or two and get passionate about it. Find an interest outside of school studies and learn about it. Find your sense of humor and perfect it. Most importantly is to remember all the stuff you did and be able to retell it to people. Sure doing crazy stuff and making new memories is lots of fun and important, but you need to be able to fill you "boring times" with stories of your accomplishments and fun things you've done in your "fun times".
You have the ability and desire to do all of those things, why are you not doing them?
2007-12-30 11:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changing your personality is a long drawn out process, it involves internalizing new attitudes, and developing habits that are foreign to you. You can try however to do one thing at a time to be more sociable, without altering everything about yourself. You have to make a concious effort. Start by noticing what people you think are fun do when they are talking to others....do they laugh, tell jokes, ask questions etc. Then try a few of these yourself.
You are what you think you are...so if you want to be fun, try acting as if you are excited, happy and fun-loving...soon you may find that you are no longer acting...it is the real you.
2007-12-30 11:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
How dare you declare to have a run of the mill character? Do you have my permission to have a run of the mill character? i do no longer think of so. All you're able to desire to do is be sure the character which you incredibly desire and act as in case you have it. you're able to be able to nicely be hectic in the commencing up, yet as you get used to the hot YOU, it is going to grow to be further and extra organic. I used this technique to recover from my worry of chatting with females. It proved valuable as I went out 126 circumstances throughout the time of my 3 hundred and sixty 5 days in graduate college. I even have been given a Masters degree in Nuclear Engineering on an analogous time.
2016-10-02 22:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by glassburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you like? When are you most comfortable? That is where you will be at your best. I am very boring to some people and to others I am very funny! Just be yourself!!
2007-12-30 11:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Help is on the way 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try pretending you're someone your not.
2007-12-30 11:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lonewolf 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋