my mom hits me wen shes pissed. my dad holds me against walls by my throught and yells in my face. im scared of wat to do cause they dont no i want to move out. my aunt lives in tennessee and she said that shed let me live with her and that shed take me in, but i cant live with my parents cause im terrified of them. any advice? help please?
2007-12-30 11:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by Megan W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your first priority should be your safety. Would you feel ok about talking to someone at school about whats going on at home? You need to notify a responsible adult outside of the family so that steps can be taken to make sure you're safe. what your parents are doing is abuse, its illegal, and its dangerous. You need to protect yourself first and foremost.
Do this, then get your aunt to ring the social services in her state and make the inquiry. There will be some issues that will need to be taken care of, and thats something an adult will need to do. Phone her and talk about whats going on. put to her what you want to do. She will need to make the phone calls to find out what the process is and the requirements for you to be able to live with her.
2007-12-30 11:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like quite a mess. First of all this is child abuse and the law can take action especially if they are leaving marks on you. Record the things that are happening and seek the advice of a trusted individual like a school councilor, principal, pastor or priest from a local church etc. someone you trust or is in a trust worthy position. If it is deemed by the courts that you are in danger then you may be placed with your aunt and possibly become emancipated legally and live with her. Don,t stay in this with out help. If there is a way to privately talk to your aunt do this. Please don't wait this kind of abuse just does not just disappear. Good luck and treat yourself right. Be sure to seek some kind of counseling to sort things out believe me you will need it.
2007-12-30 11:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by jack-o-trades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll basically have to prove why your home is better than his Dad's for him. However, you'll have to also prove that his Dad's home IS suitable for his siblings at the same time. It'll be tricky but a 14 year old, especially if it's all younger siblings, would have different requirements in home life than little ones or older ones. With his mother's wishes for him to be with you and her having primary custody I would hope that you'd be fine in this court situation. If he has a law gaurdian, doesn't seem his Dad would have much of a pull anyway.
2016-05-28 03:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And where are you living now?
Anyway, you are 14. Talk to your school counselor or call Child Protective Services or the police. Or talk to some other adult you trust.
If your parents are really bad, yes, your aunt could take you in, assuming that she would be better.
2007-12-30 11:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell your aunt the sitution and see if she can get u out of there for they are abusing you the best thing to do is see if she can come where you are and then have her call the dhs office and see if she can get you out of danger
if you are scared call the police station and they will help you til your aunt can get there you may have to stay at foster home but you want be hurt anymore and the courts may let you go stay with your but she nedds to tell them she will take care of you talk to your aunt and she if she agrees but you cant continue living in fear call 911 if it get worst
2007-12-30 11:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by wildthingmr64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a school counselor that you can talk to? Maybe a best friends mom or dad? You need to find an adult to go to and tell them how you feel. Yes, your aunt could take you in if a judge places you in her custody. Please find someone to go to soon, good luck.
2007-12-30 11:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by gklb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, your aunt needs to file a petition with the court to assume custody of you. the outcome would be decided by a judge. maybe, they would relinquish custody with out a fight as it seems they aren't that interested in parenting you.
2007-12-30 11:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by kittymom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with a school counsellor, or with your pastor. You need to have an adult to help you thru this.
2007-12-30 12:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your parents agree to give up custody of you....... Srry but that is how it works
2007-12-30 11:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by animal luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT IS BETTER OF ALL, TO SEE AND CONSULT ABOUT THIS WHIT AN ADULT. BECAUSE IS A BIG PROBLEM, AND YOU NEED HELP. AND I THINK THAT RUNNING OF PROBLEMS DON'T SOLD ANYTHING!!!
2007-12-30 11:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋