I am engaged to a guy named Bobby and we are deeply in love. I couldn't see me with anyone else. But here lately I have been having a really weird reoccurring dream. I don't mean to be graphic but here is the dream. I'm having sex with my fiance in my room and I close my eyes and say his name and when I open them its my ex! Who I broke up with 4 years ago! And it makes me sick because I love my fiance very much and I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH ANYONE ELSE!! It almost feels like cheating to me! Can anyone explain why I am having these dreams? And how to tell my fiance without him getting mad! (We tell each other everything so its hard to keep this from him) Please serious answers!
2007-12-30 10:45:21 · 2 answers · asked by *Engaged and Happy* 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
As you get older, you will start to understand that you don't need to tell him every thing, and some things you really ought to keep to yourself. What would be your reason to tell him about it right before you marry him? You know you love him, and you want to marry him, you can go ahead and tell him if you want to, but what would it accomplish, except to most likely cause him needless worry and insecurity.... Here's a passage I read on dreammoods last week...
To dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together. Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fiance. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.
Note that this paragraph is not necessarily saying that you don't really love him or anything like that, but you are nervous about the unknown territory that you will be going into in getting married to your fiance....
2007-12-30 11:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you and your ex have a troublesome parting? Did he have some qualities that really drove you up the wall? This could be your fears that your fiance may become your ex, once you get married.
Or your subconcious pointint out to you that they may not be that disimmilar.
Or it could just be a crazy dream.
But since it is reccurring... it is your fear of something manifesting tiself that way.
2007-12-30 18:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋