me and my x broke up months ago. i decide to call her to see what has she been up to then we kept talking and talking i ended up likeing her again and she waz giving me clues if i wanted to go back with her should i go back with her cuz i really liked her but she believe her friend that i waz cheating on her WHAT SHOULD I DOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-30 09:55:44 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if she wants you back, then go right ahead..
2007-12-30 09:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by paigeypoooo<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and talk to her some more. Let her tell you how she feels and you can tell her honestly what happened. Discuss with each other openly and honestly about what you expect in a relationship. What you will tolerate and won't. If you do not have communication or trust, you don't have a relationship. Tell her you are feeling something again towards her. Try the just friends for a while and see if you both want to date again. Best wishes to you.
2007-12-30 09:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only person who can decide this for you is you.
just because you have been apart does not mean the issue the 2 of u had are no longer there.
you will both need to talk about what broke you up in the first place and see if you can forgive and move on.
2007-12-30 10:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurities die hard. If you weren't giving her a reason to believe you were cheating AND if you actually were not cheating, then you will certainly encounter this issue again.
Trust is the foundation of a relationship and false accusations are very tiring on a soul.
Proceed with caution if at all.
2007-12-30 10:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she believes a friend over you, than there is a problem. She should trust you first and her friend shouldn't be all in you re business. Part of having a successful relationship is trust...and it sounds like she didn't trust you in the past I do not think it would be much different now either.
2007-12-30 10:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by wicked_clown_1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to start your relationship again, then you need to get together with her, her friend, and yourself and discuss this problem. Have questions ready for her friend such as, did you see me with someone else? If so, who was it and where did you see us? If she doesn't come clean with her story, call the other girl in on the conversation too. Ask her in front of your ex girlfriend, "Did we go out together?" This should clear up any misunderstanding.
2007-12-30 10:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond Lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something seems weird. I know girls who have made stuff up to get a couple days off to try a new guy on. I mean it seems weird that she wants you back so quickly without you asking for her back. Or did you? I would say make sure she trusts you or you will have problems later. I am not sure what's up because of your description. So give it a try.
2007-12-30 10:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get to the bottom of the lies....don't be sooo quick to get back together though..just talk and go with your hunch...consider will it be the same in the future...sounds like she is very imature!! but you never really gave her up...you were just looking for an excuse to call an EX. You would rather go BACKWARD than FORWARD!!! Good Luck
2007-12-30 10:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out as friends first...everything happens for a reason and if she wanted to get back with she could have made the first call and if she rele trusted u and cared a lot for u then she wouldnt have believed her friend when she said that u were cheating on her... think about it
2007-12-30 09:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Feda So Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly before anything should happen you both have to make sure you can go into this with an open mind and when you both get mad at each other understand that you won't bring the past into it. But most of all have 100% trust, without trust and communications your never gonna get past it.
2007-12-30 10:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by ~kp~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and that you didnt cheat on her in the first place. Then tell her you like her again and hope for the best
2007-12-30 09:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋