What exactly are the boundries in a christian marriage as far as sex. Whats ok to do and what is not?
2007-12-30 07:55:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jenkins 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
According to the bible, the marriage bed is undefiled. This means that consensual acts between a husband and wife are perfectly fine, except for the act of sodomy (which is unnatural). Many are confused about the biblical teachings concerning sex between a married man and woman. The whole purpose of marriage is to give a man and a woman the ability to have sex without defiling themselves ( no unwed fornication or adultery after marriage). God created sex to be an enjoyable and relationship building experience, but only within the acceptable confines of marriage. This whole idea of sex being only for procreation, or that we should somehow feel guilty for enjoying it, is a bunch of unlearned nonsense.
2007-12-30 08:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by bo diddly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married christians can do anything in the bedroom if both consent. What is wrong is Adultery and Pornography (a diversion of the sexual drive or mental adultery). Sex should always be between just them whatever they want to do.
2014-04-07 05:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything demeaning, or damaging would certainly be out. Sex is to be a bonding experience, so if both are honestly enthusiastic about it, and it is not damaging, .... I think that would pretty well define the boundaries.
2007-12-30 08:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know, as long as they're married and of the opposite sex, the sky's the limit...including swinging from a chandelier...
2007-12-30 07:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it bad enough I am an ordained witch I can do marriage ceremonies
According to true christian beliefs Marriage is preformed by having sex
2007-12-30 08:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The husband and wife decide between themselves. The Holy Spirit will guide you..
2007-12-30 07:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by † PRAY † 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Christians are supposed to feel guilty if they take enjoyment in the act of sex. Because they believe that the desire for sex is a dirty, sinful passion of the corrupted flesh.
2007-12-30 07:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You are allowed to have intercourse, but most Christian faiths reject any other type of sexual activity.
Personally, I believe it is not the business of the church to prohibit any type of sex in any marriage.
2007-12-30 08:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sex is only for procreation. You must never enjoy it.
2007-12-30 08:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
a justice of the peace piece of paper allows only consentual sex
if married in a christian church, you can abuse your wife as much as you wish against her will
2007-12-30 07:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by voice_of_reason 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋