I just want to die?

Question

i have feed up with life i wanna die but i dont hav it in me any more to self harm

Answer 1

I often feel this way, but although when you feel like this you think that it can't possibly get better, it will - you just can't see it. If you haven't been to your doctor, please go and try out different antidepressants. Not all of them work for you but some can. I don't find counselling helpful, but you might. Good luck and here is a hug from me
((( )))
xxxxxx

Answer 2

Sweetie have you tried calling or even emailing the samaritans. Try it, don't be discouraged if you don't get somebody that good the first time, as some are better for you personally than others, and its the luck of the draw.

Also afterwards please consider seeing your doctor about these feelings. Maybe instead of 'dying' they may help with the road to recovery, make you enjoy life. Would you consider that at all.

Also ignore the guy that said take 50 pills of anything, for one thing it isn't sure to kill you (I've taken 64 of one thing before and didn't even feel sick at all!), and nobody should be telling you to end it. Its your choice and people will try to give you alternatives.

Answer 3

Why do you want to die for? There must be people around you who care or for you to talk to, we are all human and we all go through very bad patches in our lives some (I grant you) more so than others if I were you I would get a pen and paper and just start writing down your feelings.
But do not do anything stupid you're sixteen how on earth would that make your parents feel? Or your brothers/sisters for that matter. You're only young and you have a good promising life ahead of you.

Answer 4

I've been in that place many times. There comes a time when you have to let others around you bridge the gap when you're not able to anymore. Call a friend, a family member, your doc or go to the ER. It shows wisdom to recognize and admit that you need help. I often found the strength to go on by reminding myself that I didn't want to make my children grow up with a Mom who committed suicide. Somehow that gave me the willingness to say, "It's beyond me right now, I need help." I'm now 5 yrs past the last SI episode and haven't had any hospitalizations in about that many years. That's after over 30 times in the hospital. You CAN do it--just be willing to let others stand in the gap for you.

Answer 5

You have a lot to live for. Chances are, you'll still very young. If things seem bad, just realize that conquering everything will just make you a stronger person, and that bad situations won't always be bad. If you don't like the way things are going, think up healthy solutions in order to change them - don't just remove yourself from the situation. If it helps, try to find someone you feel comfortable talking to - whether it be a good friend, counselor, or parent.

Answer 6

When you are feeling depressed as you are at the moment it is like being in a dark tunnel and you feel that nobody understands you, and you just want to curl up and die. I can assure you that there is light at the end of the tunnel and the way you are feeling now, will not last forever. Please go to your Doctor, who may prescribed anti-depressants and advise you to have counselling. Remember there is nothing wrong in admitting you are having mental related problems, as mental illnesses/problems can happen to anyone regardless of their denominations, class or creed. Those people who are laughing at you now, could be the mentally ill patients in the future. Good luck

Answer 7

NO ..you DON'T want to die!! I went to your profile. You're having too much fun on here!! lol
Just because you "hear" something in your head that tells you to self harm..doesn't mean that 's what you really want to do. You want GOOD for yourself!! You don't want to self harm...you don't want to die. That would be the BIGGEST self harm of all!! Try being GOOD to yourself....like you were your best friend. Buy yourself some jewelry . (Doesn't need to be expensive..There's some really neat "costume jewelry" out there and it's "in style" as much as the expensive kind.)Buy yourself some good smelling perfume. Spray yourself and your clothes with it. (but don't "overdo " it) Get some lavender spray and spray it on your pillow...it helps you relax at night...or whenever you try to relax or sleep. Get a new outfit. "Decorate" yourself!!! (like a Christmas tree! lol) You wouldn't go cutting off branches on your Christmas tree, would you?You wouldn't put ugly ornaments on it, would you? You wouldn't "hate" that it was "alive" long enough to give you joy, would you? Make yourself into the kind of person that will give other people joy just to be around you (like you feel around a Christmas tree). (I need to take my own advice. lol)
Ask God for "LIFE"...REAL LIFE...where you can't wait to get up in the morning and LIVE !! If other people don't make you happy..make YOURSELF happy. It DOES take effort. It doesn't just happen. Treat yourself like you were your twin...trying to help the other twin. (I don't mean become split personality...just think of it in this way for awhile to see what makes you happy.)Sing some happy songs. If you sing some praise songs to God...often you will start to feel a joy like you've never known. I hope this happens with you.
Now...I'm going to go work on "MY " "Christmas tree". LOL

Answer 8

We shall all have to die sometime but it is such a waste of a life if one wants to leave this earth early. It is up to you so remember the good times you have enjoyed and use that innner resilience you undoubtedly have and look to the future.

Answer 9

I would suggest you call the samaritans. Dont do it as life is to short and whatever your problems they can be sorted and things can improve. Who knows you could meet someone great tomorrow or win the lotto, but not if your not hear. Hope you work it out.

Answer 10

If you just want someone to talk to in confidence.

Samaritans
08457 90 90 90
email support: [e-mail]

Mental Health
Saneline
0845 767 8000
http://www.sane.org.uk/SANEline

Saneline is 24/7 - if enough trained volunteers are available.
Keep trying – lines are often busy

Childline – if under 18 or so (Sorry I don’t know your age.)
0800 1111

There are quite a few websites by and for self-harmers. Below are some of them, some have online communities. You’re not alone.

http://www.recoveryourlife.com/
http://www.selfharm.org.uk/default.aspa
http://survive.org.uk/selfharm.html
http://www.nshn.co.uk/
http://www.mind.org.uk/Information/Bookl...
http://www.selfharm.net/
http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/

Do also see if your doctor can refer to someone to talk to.

But reach out.

You’re in my thoughts. Take care now.