just the thought of it scares me
2007-12-30 06:51:35 · 51 answers · asked by linzz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah skydiving scares me to i dont think ill ever be doing it. :)
2007-12-30 06:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know how you feel. It's a new experience for you and you will have no idea how it feels. Most likely it will hurt on your first time of "doing it." But, to help mitigate the pain, you have to make sure both of you do some foreplay for setting the mood and put lubrication to make things more enjoyable and smooth during sex. Make sure your partner goes easy and gentle on you since it's your first time.
Anyway, if you scared to have sex, it's totally fine, just take your time and do it when you are ready for it. Don't get pressured into doing it because it won't help you when you still have fears during sex. Sex should be an enjoyable experience, so it should be done when you are absolutely ready and anxious for it. Also, make sure you know you are old enough and know more about this before you start sex.
2007-12-30 07:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what you are doing then DON'T !
There is lots of information available to learn about what ever you are afraid of , so find out first ! When you learn from RELIABLE sources you can make informed decisions and it won't scare you because you will know what to do and what the problems and possibilities are before they happen .
2007-12-30 06:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anson C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things that you have not said. The first time should be because you want to. The right thing to do is research the subject and take it step at a time until you are comfortable. There is nothing that says that you have to do it if you don't want to. Just don't give in to pressure and make sure that you want to go through with it.
2007-12-30 06:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by eyecue_two 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was afraid the first time I did it
& omg my vagina hurt so freaking bad for the next 2 weeks!
it hurts sooo bad! It hurts when then when you break something! Well atleast it hurt that bad for me..I thought I was gona die! It took him 30 mins to get it all the way in cause i kept pushing him off of me! It hurt! Let your first time be special Not with some *** hole whos gonna f uck you over
2007-12-30 06:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it scares everyone at first. I don't really remember the details of the actual sex when I lost my virginity (it was 7 years ago) but I do remember what I was thinking. I was thinking, whoa- I can't believe I'm actually having sex... this is sooooo weird!
2007-12-30 06:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by michelle ma belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other responses. If you're afraid, that probably is a good sign you aren't ready.
2007-12-30 07:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by jdw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a Darwin Award nominee.
Under the circumstances, probably a good idea.
2007-12-30 06:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by comicards 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it is you are afraid of doing, well, don't do it until you are informed as to anything that has do to with it. Don't let anyone push you into doing it because that constitues harassment, abuse or coercion.
Ever heard of the word NO?
2007-12-30 06:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Karan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't. Wait until you find that person. When you do and the time is right you'll know longer be scared.
2007-12-30 06:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good, i wish i was scared of it before i started 13 years ago .stay afraid until you know when you are ready. it's not all that anyway. good luck!
2007-12-30 06:56:01 · answer #11 · answered by sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋