Okay so my ex-boyfriend and me had a big falling out when we broke up. Well now we were sort of starting to talk again and get together. Something happened last week and we got into an argument sort of but more of me just telling him my feelings. I wasn't even mad, just upset. He told me he had to go and he would call me later. I even texted him and told me to do it at a decent time b/c i had to get up early the next day. He said okay. Well, he did not call. So i think to myself, he wants to play that game ok, im not going to call him. If he wants to talk to me he can call me. He didn't call/text me for like 4 days. Then i get a text saying "i miss you baby. come back." I don't get it. What does he mean come back? I've been right here all along waiting for him. So i tried calling him last night. He didn't answer and i left a message but I havent heard from him. Does he want to be with me or does he just want to get some? Sometimes he can be so sweet then other times i feel disrespected
2007-12-30 06:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by SouthernSweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really just want us to be happy. I mean I love him and he knows that. And he tells me that he loves me too. I want to believe him so bad and sometimes i do believe him. But sometimes he can be a real jerk. But all guys can so I don't want to just leave him because of that. He basically broke up with his girlfriend for me , but now he is acting like this. I want to know if he is hiding something from me or he just doesn't really know what he wants right now and is trying to figure it out. Or if he is just bein a butt and trying to have his cake and eat it too .. hmm
2007-12-30 06:59:25 · update #1
sounds like he wants you back and you want him back too... but you both are playing the same game, im not gonna call him, im not gonna call her untill she calls me first. one of you has to give in. it's not that easy. so you called him, and he didn't answer, don't sweat it. maybe his phone was off or maybe hes just too afraid to talk to you right now. try calling again if he doesn't answer be like what is your deal you say you want me back but you don't act like it? it doesn't make sense. so yeah just try that
2007-12-30 06:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is leading you around like a dog on a leash. If I were you, I'd cut his butt loose. If you feel disrespected, you probably are being disrespected. He sounds like a jerk. I'd ditch him.
Oh, yeah I've heard this crap before and I've said this crap before. I dated a guy for way too long and he said he loved me but would be a total jerk off. And he left his g/f for you? That does not sound like a promising kind of relationship. Heck, he probably has someone else he is seeing now. But you'll probably keep this thing going. You will have to learn the hard way like most of us do.
2007-12-30 06:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by gogogadgetlonglegs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should do an exercise in person:
Both of you write out why you respect/love the other;;;all the reasons.
Then write a list of what you each are withholding from one another. Listen to each others' lists without saying even a peep, to show respect. Then write out , for each thing you disagree with, when you think the other has it wrong. Keep the writing exercise going until you have both read the others reasons. Again, say nothing. The idea is that through silence and only writing to each other in person, great things can pour through your writing and honesty.
2007-12-30 06:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I concur with the Nature Boy, he is cheating on you. If you have doubts, you are not in love. He sure does not love you; if more then 1 day goes by without calling. You are young and the ocean is full of wonderful fish – go fish somewhere else. Let him be someone else’s problem while he grows ups.
2007-12-30 07:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Stan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you and your boyfriend broke up..(sort of.. according to you). Your boyfriend, for whatever reasons you broke up, took this time to evaluate the relationship with you. He did/ or tried to do something about it..like it or not. You will never know what he did. So it seems to me that he prefers being with you so you either change your ways, in order to be with this guy, or just learn from this & eventually you'll find / be with the one meant for you. I myself am dealing with trust...when it's lost ...It's difficult to get back.You're either happily in love or just stupid for trying again..it's up to you...good luck
2007-12-30 07:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your boyfriend a comfortable hands on feeling individual? have you ever tried kissing him longer and what became his reaction? try kissing him longer and continually merely remember to've clean breath :) if it nevertheless looks a controversy then i could advise you talk with him and tell him your concern. chuffed Kissing to you !! Goddess
2016-10-02 21:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by coughlan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's so TOTALLY playing you like a fool. KICK HIS SORRY TALE END TO THE CURB
you don't need to put up with that crap!
2007-12-30 06:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to take an inventory of what you want out of this relationship, is it time to move on?
2007-12-30 06:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's cheating on you, on the other hand, he doesn't want to lose you.
2007-12-30 06:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋