so this dream i had AFTER the rape dreams(i had dreams of being raped by my best guy-friends), and well in the dream i was raped by alex(best guy-friend, well best friend) and well i was pregnant, and in highschool(i acually am in middle school) and well after i gave birth i went up to alex with the baby's(yes two) and said(while handing him teh babys) "happy birthday" and he was like "its nto my birthday" then i snapped "well its theirs" and he just stood there, then i stormed off, and this all took place in the highschool, and i dont know what it means, my friends were in the dream also, and it just like (like all of my dreams) was so real, even though i knew(after i woke up) that it couldnt of been real, but i have no idea why i had that dream, so can you plz tell me what it means?, plz plz plz help
2007-12-30 06:43:05 · 4 answers · asked by spiritgirl2595 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
If I could sit down and talk to you, I'd ask you how you felt about the babies in the dream?
If the babies felt positive, then I would interpret the dream like this:
You have been terribly hurt in a deep and personal way by someone you know well. The good news is that even though you have been hurt, something positive is coming forth from your life - a double positive new life or idea or something to be involved in. The dream shows that you are expecting the person who hurt you to still take some responsibility, but the dream suggests that they may just not get it.
Hope this is some help to you.
2007-12-30 07:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamin' In Colour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't in high school, so I am guessing you are in middle school at this point. You are growing up and becoming a woman, which means that part of you wants to be a mother. However, you are fearful of this occurring. Being raped is a way of giving up control and making it not your fault, which is a normal way of fantasizing. Being overpowered by a boy makes him more of a man, in a way. It also represents the fearful aspects of sex, adulthood, and giving yourself up to another person.
The fact that these dreams are centering around high school suggest you have some insecurities and worries about entering high school, which is for older kids, or young adults. Lots of changes are going on just now in your life and with your body, and as far as the birthday comments, I'd suggest that it may be you moving from being the "birthday girl" to knowing that someday in the fairly near future you will be responsible for others' birthdays.
I also think that you don't have to worry about any of this. It sounds normal, and the fact that you are concerned about normal acts (sex, birth, actually seeing the babies), it seems that your mind is just working through growing-up issues while you sleep.
If you like Alex as a boyfriend, either now or later, the enjoy him and don't worry about this dream at all.
Unless you do plan to become pregnant, do use protection, always. And know that very few "accidental" babies are born. As you can see from your dreams, the subconscious is a powerful force in your mind. Stay ahead of it by not "letting" pregnancy happen. Plan for it, when the time is right.
2007-12-30 13:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dreams seems to indicate that you don't trust your guy friends very much, maybe for good reason. You certainly don't think the guy in your latest dream is very considerate. Alex rapes you most likely gets you pregnant and the does not respond very sesitively to the baby. The fact the dreams seemed so real, means they count more, than less real feeling dreams. I would be careful around these guy friends if you are not sure you can trust them. They may be abusive and controlling to some degree. Meditation/prayer, exercise, and a healthy diet will make you stronger spiritually, so you can better protect your self from the the energy of those that can give you bad dreams.
2007-12-30 07:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 21:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by coughlan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋